Do you speak about your life when you talking with bytches?

[Free]

Like in a date or maybe at your job.
I'm not sure if i should be more open about my life or just let the hoe talk and wait for questions.

Usually i just say a few things here and there but don't really be open about personal shyt.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Nah, you wanna be mysterious at first. Let them talk about their lives, while you say as little as possible.

 

[Free]

Nah, you wanna be mysterious at first. Let them talk about their lives, while you say as little as possible.

You mean in general or just about your life?

 

[humminbird]

No I have to know you for 6 months before we get personal

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Don’t say too much. Sometimes brehs say too much and unintentionally reveal their struggles, insecurities, and adequacies and ultimately turn us off. Often they don’t even realize the amount of things they’ve said that worked against them just by talking a little too much then they should have. Then again I think this applies to men and women, it’s better to leave a little mystery, say a little about yourself, ask questions and listen—say less.

Save the deep stuff after there’s already been some emotional investment and you know they like you.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Of course.

But I'm a successful confident breh who isn't trying to date / fukk them anyway so... .

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I revealed myself before and turned women off.

During the talking process keep ur personal life lowkey

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Sure

 

[010101]

depends

everything you say is a plus if she wants her babies to look like you

if she's just wasting time with you she's looking for any reason to ghost

*

 

[Marzupial]

I do

Its all lies tho


I never understood why guys are scared to lie to women especially women you barely know

Prolly cause they don't know how much women lie

 

[⠀X ⠀]

You mean in general or just about your life?

In general, until after you've smashed. You don't wanna say too much and talk yourself out the p*ssy. The less you say, the more they can project their ideals onto you.

 

[MoveForward]

I'm an open book... No need to hold back, I'm normal as fukk anyway. You guys would find more cooperation with women if you wouldn't approach dating with this measured bullsh1t.

 

[Heafcliffe]

Nah, just keep it light with some humility. May share a semi-personal story after them first.