If you are in a relationship?
Do you take relationship advice from single people?
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DEPENDS ON THEIR HISTORY OF RELATIONSHIPS.
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If they have an open mind and can share their experiences like an adult then yeah.
I don't care to take relationship advice from bitter single people though. Dudes that spend every day bytching and watching other men whining on social media every day aren't people I want to listen to. If a chick is a single mom I'm not interested in what she has to say about relationships.
I don't care to take relationship advice from bitter single people though. Dudes that spend every day bytching and watching other men whining on social media every day aren't people I want to listen to. If a chick is a single mom I'm not interested in what she has to say about relationships.
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Really depends on the persons disposition towards the opposite gender..
Men and women usually give advice from a jaded/bitter place..
They interject their past traumas and experiences into the conversation as fact about a whole sector of human beings..
Even people that are in LTR/Marriages..
Do this in terms of relationship talks..
This best advice I have ever received was from one of my single patnas..
And it was basic, simple and straight to the point..
“Shut the fukk and just listen”
That has saved me from some of the most frustrating, headache inducing conversations..
Two things came out of it..
I realized ol girl wasn’t shyt and we were not compatible..
It made me aware of how I argued my points to my lady..
I’ll let my woman get it all out..
Recite that shyt back like a courtroom stenographer..
And watch her quickly disarm into
That’s all it really takes with anybody..
Listen..
Catch what they say..
People just want to be heard
Men and women usually give advice from a jaded/bitter place..
They interject their past traumas and experiences into the conversation as fact about a whole sector of human beings..
Even people that are in LTR/Marriages..
Do this in terms of relationship talks..
This best advice I have ever received was from one of my single patnas..
And it was basic, simple and straight to the point..
“Shut the fukk and just listen”
That has saved me from some of the most frustrating, headache inducing conversations..
Two things came out of it..
I realized ol girl wasn’t shyt and we were not compatible..
It made me aware of how I argued my points to my lady..
I’ll let my woman get it all out..
Recite that shyt back like a courtroom stenographer..
And watch her quickly disarm into
That’s all it really takes with anybody..
Listen..
Catch what they say..
People just want to be heard
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Hoodoo Child
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If the advice is solid, I don't care who it's from.
GreenGhxst
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relationship status doesn't matter if its good advice
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I'd rather get advice from a single person instead of a person that constantly feels the need to be in.a relationship.
How seriously I take their advice will be based on their current situation.
I.e. the nikka who just got cheated on, kicked out of his home by his girl and pays child support better get the fukk on with his advice lol
A nikka with his shyt together single or not, with a good track record of bytches can by all means she'd some light on my situation and what I might be doing wrong.
I.e. the nikka who just got cheated on, kicked out of his home by his girl and pays child support better get the fukk on with his advice lol
A nikka with his shyt together single or not, with a good track record of bytches can by all means she'd some light on my situation and what I might be doing wrong.