do you trust females who choose you?

[Cake]

I'm talking girls who go outta their way to get you attention and just make it obvious they want you.

I like girls like that cuz they make me feel special. But I don't trust girls like that cuz I feel like they'll go just as hard when they see another nikka they like.

 

[StickStickly]

Don't waste your time worrying about what they do with other men. Don't weigh yourself down with "what if"s.

 

[Neuromancer]

Why wouldn't I what she likes about another nikka has nothing to do with me unless she's creeping. Then well...

 

[International Playa]

Those are the best women to have in relationships.Those types of women will make sure you are laced up right, money in your pocket, well fed, balls always empty.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Make it easy on yourself and don't trust anyone but the woman who brung you into this world

 

[wickedsm]

Interesting

 

[SheWantTheD]

Nah I don't have a problem with that, but those girls I'm usually not interested in or not that physically attracted to them.

And even if I were, my punk azz never made a move. I'm also a little weary though, because I've had a lot of women

feign interest just to get my attention because I wasn't giving them attention like all these other dudes. And once I

finally give them attention, they disappear and act like I'm stalking them or some annoying pest.

Really?

 

[King Jove]

obviously she must have poor vision if she's attracted to me.

 

[SouljaVoy]

Girls that make the first move are 90% of the time "fast", or have self-esteem issues, or ugly...

A bad chick with some pride about herself will never feel she has to go out of her way for a nikka because it is beneath her...


Yall nikkas who want girls to approach you first are p*ssy. Grow some nuts.

 

[Turbulent]

Nah I don't have a problem with that, but those girls I'm usually not interested in or not that physically attracted to them.

And even if I were, my punk azz never made a move. I'm also a little weary though, because I've had a lot of women

feign interest just to get my attention because I wasn't giving them attention like all these other dudes. And once I

finally give them attention, they disappear and act like I'm stalking them or some annoying pest.

Really?

she stopped being attracted to you cause you changed. you stopped being who she was attracted to.

or maybe she perceived you as something else. either way, if you kept it true all along, the fact they disappeared is a blessing...

 

[Neil Tyson]

it depends. Sometimes you have to observe what they do rather than what they say. some like to pretend to be interested to get what they want, and even worse it's not even dikk, it's attention or money. of course, you gotta make a move as a man and express your intentions to find out what they want for sure.

@SheWantTheD some girls like a guy's appearance but hate the sound of their voice.

 

[Turbulent]

as far as the OP, it comes down to how you feel about yourself. if you feel like you're a great man, her choosing you will feel natural. in turn you feeling that will be projected and her choice will feel even more validated.

if you feel like you're "unworthy" then it's the same principle. what you feel about yourself will infect your words, your body language, your tone of voice. and she'll second guess you as well as her choice.

there is a third possibility. that you feel great about yourself and yet feel like she's just an attention whore. Your gut will tell you. listen to it.

So no, a woman choosing me hard doesn't raise a red flag necessarily.




peep the spoken word that starts around 6:30.

 

[SheWantTheD]

she stopped being attracted to you cause you changed. you stopped being who she was attracted to.

or maybe she perceived you as something else. either way, if you kept it true all along, the fact they disappeared is a blessing...

I mean going from ignoring a chick and treating her like some random chick that you aren't interested in to checking her out. I'm not simping, not doing anything for these girls nor telling them sweet nothings.

 

[SheWantTheD]

it depends. Sometimes you have to observe what they do rather than what they say. some like to pretend to be interested to get what they want, and even worse it's not even dikk, it's attention or money. of course, you gotta make a move as a man and express your intentions to find out what they want for sure.

@SheWantTheD some girls like a guy's appearance but hate the sound of their voice.

What do you mean? I have a very deep voice actually.

 

[Neil Tyson]

What do you mean? I have a very deep voice actually.

I've heard women say they like how the guy looks but hate it when they start talking and how they come off.