Does being in a relationship = happiness?

Ohene

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It can be aiight but honestly...having to care about somebody's wellbeing on a consistent is draining for some people. Relationships are generally a lot of work.
 

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The only time relationships are the end-all, be-all for happiness is when you don't know how to be happy alone...

...which is something that a lot of people can't seem to figure out yet, I'm noticing. It shows too and those people end up miserable even when they ARE in relationships. :ld:

Relationships with other people actually become way better once you learn to be happy with yourself. That way...you're complementing the person you're with and not depending on them or competing with them. :hug:

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Yeah man I look around me and there's so many people that suffer from codependency.

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Sad Bunny

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I dont have codependency issues

I just go thru random depressions :to: and periods of loneliness
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
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I dont have codependency issues

I just go thru random depressions :to: and periods of loneliness



You need to fix that, what happens to you in the future if you get married, have kids and then 8 years later your wife wants to leave you? If you're this broken up over just a girlfriend you may very well kill yourself if you go through that kind of situation.
 

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You need to fix that, what happens to you in the future if you get married, have kids and then 8 years later your wife wants to leave you? If you're this broken up over just a girlfriend you may very well kill yourself if you go through that kind of situation.

:ohhh:
 

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happiness isn't a blanket thing, everyone enjoys different things, dislikes different things.

I personally like having a good woman around like that, I know other dudes that couldn't handle having to deal with a woman daily and are happy as well. Same with women, know plenty on both side of the fence. Some people are about that relationship life, some ain't.
 

Sad Bunny

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You need to fix that, what happens to you in the future if you get married, have kids and then 8 years later your wife wants to leave you? If you're this broken up over just a girlfriend you may very well kill yourself if you go through that kind of situation.

I already said what id do.

Suicide/homocide

And not depressed bc of girls....just life in general
 

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To each its own.At least if your single you can find the root of the problem. YES relationships have good times,especially for the first 3 months (honeymoon phase) but once somebody is unhappy in the relationship.Your life becomes hell...especially if your living with the person.See how much happiness you have when your losing $$$ and credit gets shot (these are examples not saying they will happen)
 

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Life is getting you down cause you're doing the same thing breh, try volunteering and yet again, travel.

Nah im good breh

Im just stressed about work.

Not having job security is a bytch.

I talked to two friends earlier, we are planning a.trip :myman:

Ill have passport by March :myman:

I listen to your advice, mr poster of the year :hug:
 
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