Does That "Friends With Benefits" Shyt Ever Work?

[bogey_j]

seems like one of you will catch feelings eventually...

 

[VegasCAC]

Nah, it never does if you let it run for too far a time period. Learned this the hard way

 

[Mook]

Ofc it works, you get p*ssy you homo.

 

[satireprod]

seems like one of you will catch feelings eventually...

Good question bro. The irony of it seems to be that most of the time for it to work you were never really friends to begin with OR it has an expiration date you cant go beyond.

 

[King Jove]

from my personal experience, no

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

It works but it has an expiration date. Eventually either one of the people want more or one of the people find someone else who is giving them something this "friend" isn't. Most women are not okay with being "an option" and even guys who say they don't care, do care. They end up getting insecure like I wonder who she fukkin cause she not answering my text etc.

 

[aXiom]

seems like one of you will catch feelings eventually...

If y'all enjoy each other's company outside of sex, more often than not one party will end up catching feelings.. that's a given.. it's the levels of maturity and how you approach the situation after the fact that matters..

Unless there's something about the other party that puts them outside of relationship material scope.. i.e a chick with kids, or a dude without ambition.

Had a chick I used to chill with heavy earlier in the year and we started messing around.. eventually turned into a situationship and we both caught feellings, but we both agreed we couldn't make any promises at the time.. shyt went south and we both ghosted for a min.. but we back tight now.. no sex though..

 

[Worthless Loser]

Worked for me successfully for 4 years straight. Then she had a baby last year and decided she wanted to devote 150% to her baby. Not even mad at her.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

No. Not from my experience. I ended up being the one to catch feelings and got my feelings hurt...

I curse his name to this very day....b*stard.

 

[Bryan Danielson]

No. Not from my experience. I ended up being the one to catch feelings and got my feelings hurt...

I curse his name to this very day....b*stard.

His?


I'm sorry to hear that young lady. Anytime you'd like to get up for a cup of coffee to chat about life or whatever just let me know




Back to topic, like with anything, under the right circumstances it works perfectly fine. I had 2 successful situations like that.

One only ending cuz she moved back to her hometown for a job.... though low key her hometown is right beside my hometown so should I ever go home, I'm confident we could get up.

The second its kinda still good but just a little complicated... nothing emotional though

 

[DMX]

YOU EVENTUALLY GOTTA ASK A bytch HOW ITS GOIN DOWN

IF ITS ON TIL ITS GONE THEN YOU GOTS TO KNOW NOW

 

[calixprynce]

No. Not from my experience. I ended up being the one to catch feelings and got my feelings hurt...

I curse his name to this very day....b*stard.

 

[1thouwow]

Only works when there is an end in sight.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

The nikka used to wear NIKE flip flops, white socks, and basketball shorts whenever he came through...
As soon as the deed was done he asked for a bath cloth to wash up..
And I always got the sentimental kiss on the forehead when it was time for him to leave..

I should have known what the deal was.......

 

[calixprynce]

The nikka used to wear NIKE flip flops, white socks, and basketball shorts whenever he came through...
As soon as the deed was done he asked for a bath cloth to wash up..
And I always got the sentimental kiss on the forehead when it was time for him to leave..

I should have known what the deal was.......