Does the community has much more influence over your kid than you do ?

[OfTheCross]

@Eastside Get The Money made this point in another thread...

I'm inclined to say that it doesn't. But I've heard a lot of people say that it doesn't matter how good you raise the kid, they can still be bad due to the influences.

What y'all think ?

 

[Matt504]

School aged kids are out of the home for 8+ hours of their day and when they return home, they're pretty much spent.

 

[get these nets]

Fear of disappointing, embarrassing my family was a stronger influence than any direct or indirect influence from the outside.
But then again, I'm not a natural follower.

 

[OfTheCross]

School aged kids are out of the home for 8+ hours of their day and when they return home, they're pretty much spent.

Yeah...but they're in class for those 8 hours for the most part...

 

[killacal]

School aged kids are out of the home for 8+ hours of their day and when they return home, they're pretty much spent.

He's not arguing in good faith

This is a spin from the kids in the tranny strip club...he wants us to deny outside influence on children who are not home for most hours they are awake. So we can shut the fukk up about it being wrong

 

[OfTheCross]

Fear of disappointing, embarrassing my family was a stronger influence then any direct or indirect influence from the outside.
But then again, I'm not a natural follower.

That's what I'd think is the case for the large majority of kids. If your family isn't involved in your life is moreso when the streets/community raises you.

In my opinon.

 

[dr. pill biden]

yes once they get older than about 7-8

kids naturally move away from their parents to their friends/peers around that age so you have had better trained em up in the right way already by then. and also ideally be in a community where all the kids are in a similar situation instead of like 50% of them being bebes kids.

ppl who ship their kids off to daycare and let the tv watch them for babysitting find this out the hard way

 

[killacal]

Yeah...but they're in class for those 8 hours for the most part...

@Matt504 told ya

 

[010101]

who do they spend the most time with¿*

 

[OfTheCross]

He's not arguing in good faith

This is a spin from the kids in the tranny strip club...he wants us to deny outside influence on children who are not home for most hours they are awake. So we can shut the fukk up about it being wrong

You don't have to deny anything. It was a comment that I thought was worthy of it's own conversation.

 

[Dzali OG]

Of course it does. A person will always value the opinion of their peers over anyone else to include family.

This is the trick bag our community is in. No matter how good and responsible a parent you are, your children value their peers more. Well except for children who have already been crushed by peers and have no one else but their parents.

 

[OfTheCross]

yes once they get older than about 7-8

kids naturally move away from their parents to their friends/peers around that age so you have had better trained em up in the right way already by then. and also ideally be in a community where all the kids are in a similar situation instead of like 50% of them being bebes kids.

ppl who ship their kids off to daycare and let the tv watch them for babysitting find this out the hard way

who do they spend the most time with¿*

Indeed. This and this.

I think what's important is keeping up with who your kids' friends are.

 

[Eastside Get The Money]

Kids are at school 8 hours a day being taught by people who you have no idea their political or ideological views. Then they are surrounded by kids coming from all walks of life.

And to modernize it for now they have the internet where any kid can find a chat room to discuss or get info about anything he wants. They have cell phones that they can contact anyone at any age, at any time. They have social media which they follow people literally called influencers.

Plus coronavirus showed me y’all don’t even like y’all kids enough to even put in enough time to teach them sense.

 

[killacal]

You don't have to deny anything. It was a comment that I thought was worthy of it's own conversation.

You aren't haven't a discussion you are steering responses you don't like

Who stumps for the right for children to be groomed ol pedophiles white knight

 

[get these nets]

That's what I'd think is the case for the large majority of kids. If your family isn't involved in your life is moreso when the streets/community raises you.

In my opinon.

I think that's NOT the case with a majority.
Also forget to mention in first post that besides that fear of disappointment, I had physical fear of my Dad as a kid if I did things I wasn't supposed to do.
In the generations that have come up after mine, the family unit has broken down. So for many of those people, those boundaries didn't exist for them.