Does your lady (s/o) support your vision?

[Silkk]

Breh thinks a 21 year old female is thinking about building an empire

It’s the principle of the whole situation. Eventually young women will grow into older women.

To be fair I’ve noticed some my age, and some older, who think the same as my current girl. It just made me think.

I do feel you on the age thing. Ideally I’d be with someone around my age, who has a similar mindset as me. She’s just the one I’m currently with. That’s an entirely different conversation for another sub forum though

It honestly just depends on the chick, some women get it some don’t no matter the age.

 

[jaguar paw]

Yes.

 

[Atlrocafella]

OP your girl is not even 21 yet. You shouldn’t even take women under 25 serious anyway. These young girls don’t know what they want yet and can’t help you attain what you want.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Maybe I should have rephrased the OP. To ask moreso in general terms.

I’m 25 and my current ol lady will be 21 in a week

My bro who I’m referencing, who has the 8 rentals and whose wife’s is on board is 28 and 27, respectively. I could chalk up her behavior to age but I’m asking in general. Young ppl will be old eventually and I’m thinking out loud. As brehs get older and find their mate

I know she young, but you don't just magically wake up and want to build empires and do great shyt. If she not even showing a glimmer of that possibility right now, then she prolly never will, or when she does it'll be years later when you might be on a different level. She might resent you if she doesn't have her own shyt going on so be on the look out for that.

With that said, don't compare yourself to your brehs on the grind. Let them inspire, but don't compare. You path is going to be different even if you trying to reach the same place.

 

[Swirv]

Yes but she doesn’t know how. I try and teach her but she doesn’t have the desire to execute.

 

[IvyLane]

Tell her what you want and need for support. She might not know due to her age and experience. At the end of the day, you want a life partner that is rowing the same direction as you. You don’t want to be dragging someone up the mountain.