I'm sorry but what the actual feck did you expect Dad to do? Fyi,the VAST MAJORITY of the developing world IS 99% ANTI FAKKIT! Some of you need to log off SM for a week and see the REAL WORLD. I know an upper class fam in Nairobi around 2004-5 who discovered their only son was possessed of rectal urges when they were summoned to his boarding school to hear of his propositions in the shower.
Treatment began with byatch slaps,kicks,verbal violence and the next day began with conversion therapy at the city no#1 shrink as the parents alternately prayed and fasted while they searched their respective family histories looking for the possibility of bad karma (it happens!).
Last I heard he was safely delivered of these demonic yearnings and is married with 3 kids-I saw him in town,maybe February.