Yes, that is the best thing to do to protect your feelings. Ignore these other guys whose main goal is "getting the pssy". I think you should mention getting back together though and if she doesn't give you a clear "yes I want to get back with you", stop fcking and just keep your relationship with her on co parenting terms.
Dont fukk over a good girl brehs(updated)
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Sadly I did not read your whole post. I only skimmed it, but I did see the part in bold.
Idk what you don't understand, but she is not back with him, she is fcking him. He wants to be in a relationship with her like they used to be. He doesn't just want to fck her. I've said this many times already. Fcking someone and being in a relationship with someone is not the same thing. Idk if sex is all you want from women, but this guy wants more than sex, so continuing to fck her when he really wants a relationship with her is not a good idea at all.
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It's alright then, you got a kid out of it.
What more do you want?
Stay smashing thots and raise your son.
You been blessed.
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ok let me give you the short version
she's fukking him NOW... 1 of 2 things is going to happen.. she's going to end it with the other rebound guy and be with the OP... or the other rebound guy is going to end it with her and she's going to be with the OP
she's already not happy with this new guy... she's already gone back to who she truly wants... but HE fukked up.. she's not going to give her heart out to him again so fast
she obviously loves the OP.. but he's the one who fukked things up... so she being cautious but will be back IN A RELATIONSHIP with him in no time flat.. this man fukked up, and hasn't done shyt to prove he deserves a relationship with her... and yet you want him to start making demands and making her choose
tell me you haven't seen it play exactly how i just said
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@Gisellesmashing hoes got me where im at now the couple of hoes i do fukk with just dont do nothing for meim used to do the heartbreaking now im fukked. Ill never break another woman heart again
see this is what you're missing... this nikka was out here smashing hoes and got caught up.. now you want him to step to her like "choose or else" when she just getting over that and letting him in the physical?
nah he needs to work on that emotional side and mental side to bring it all the way home... not start making ultimatums on what she needs to be doing, when he was the one out fukking hoes and made her not trust him
smashing hoes got me where im at now the couple of hoes i do fukk with just dont do nothing for me
I don't feel sorry for you. I bet as soon as she takes you back, you'll be cheating again. If she is cheating on the new guy like you said, I don't feel sorry for her either.
Is it possible that she isn't cheating on him and got rid of him, but you just don't know it yet?
Or 3, she can leave both alone. She sounds kinda weak though, so she probably won't.
He should stop sleeping with her. It won't help at all. Sex isn't going to show that he has changed.
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you could be correct.. and maybe he needs both points of views... woman and a man.. am i correct in assuming you didn't know he was fukking hoes on the side and that's why he's single?
from a man telling a man how to get his girl back.. i'm just saying if she's fukking you.. play it cool, keep telling her how you feel, and she'll eventually want more than just dikk... she'll want her family back... shyt she probably not even out of love yet, hence why she right back here
i see what you saying tho... cause if the roles were reversed, a woman would think a man is here to fukk her and keep her on the hook, without a title.. i just don't think a woman who was hurt by you, is thinking "let me just keep fukking him tho"