Don't put your parents in a nursing home

[Tair]

Prosecutors dragging their heels in this case, too.

Sorry for what happened to the sista's mom. Jesus

 

[3rdWorld]

I still scratch my head at Black folks who dump their old folks in nursing homes..I knew that to be a White practice.

 

[CopiousX]

I still scratch my head at Black folks who dump their old folks in nursing homes..I knew that to be a White practice.

It depends on the severity of dementia. It's not about getting rid of an old person , it's about treating somebody who is sick.



Functionally speaking you won't have a choice with certain types of dimentia where you're dealing with people who will eat their own poop or walk out of a second floor window or have forgotten how to swallow. Unless you have the resources to completely stop working you have to outsource it to an actual facility.


I'd compare it to you saying black people have been historically treated badly by hospitals therefore you won't send your mother with cancer or stroke to the hospital. We have to view dimentia care from the same medical context.

 

[3rdWorld]

It depends on the severity of dementia. It's not about getting rid of an old person , it's about treating somebody who is sick.



Functionally speaking you won't have a choice with certain types of dimentia where you're dealing with people who will eat their own poop or walk out of a second floor window or have forgotten how to swallow. Unless you have the resources to completely stop working you have to outsource it to an actual facility.


I'd compare it to you saying black people have been historically treated badly by hospitals therefore you won't send your mother with cancer or stroke to the hospital. We have to view dimentia care from the same medical context.

True.
I'm in that boat now myself and offering care at home, so we have had to get a home care nurse. And it's not cheap, whole fam has to chip in..
But yeah, it comes down to the severity and who is around.

 

[DetroitEWarren]

Prosecutors dragging their heels in this case, too.

Sorry for what happened to the sista's mom. Jesus

Why don't these people have young family members that's willing to hunt people down?

I'm not going to the fukkin police if I was her daughter. I'm setting it up so he comes back and tries to do it again and I'm killing him on camera right inside that bytch.

These type of people don't deserve to live and they don't deserve due process. Why the fukk would I allow him to get due process (now out on bail and can run to Israel where he will be given money and power and placed somewhere in Latin South America to run for a political position and serve Israel) when I would have the right to kill him if I caught him in the act. Especially as a woman walking in to a big ass white man raping my demented mother.

Nah. I'm taking care of that shyt myself. Period.

 

[Heafcliffe]

Why don't these people have young family members that's willing to hunt people down?

I get what you're saying but not everyone nor every family has that option, b.