This is a particular subject that needs to be discussed (a subject some of us like to run from).......Please stop thinking its all about sex or and some cases dikk and p*ssy. (an ever redundant theme). <------------Once you realize how convulted this is it will make what im saying and have been saying for a while now, that much more clear.
We need to understand that the Blackwoman with a Goddess Mindstate, more than likely be concern about her relations, because it is her relations that produces the civilizations in and of itself. And the nature and quality of that civilization which is created. Will in my opinion depend upon the nature of the quality of the female/male relationship that produces it.
The Black Woman needs to know that alongside "The Mother Of Civilization" There is also the "The Father Of Civilization"
A true Goddess has a deep appreciation and respect for the male/female relationship, because the woman and man recognizes it essence. The Woman knows the connection between Man & woman is the balancing of the universe in and of itself. the very basis. the male (yin) female (yang) energies in creation. The union. The female/male expressions of energy in which you sustain life itself. Equilibrium.
Now that doesn't mean procreation in the physical but in the mental/spiritual plane. The Mother of civilization is necessarily one who gives birth to sons and daughters, but to minds as well.
The woman not only multiplies in the matters of procreation but spiritually/mentally also. Her essence is but a doorway in which minds can be nurture and elevated to higher planes of existence.