Elle magazine did an article on the black manosphere

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With all due respect I did say that we realize most of you are harmless, but that we worry about the few who get too excited about the rhetoric and take that shyt to a new level. Ya know the unhinged Elliot types that shoot if you reject them, or hit you in the face with a skateboard.

For the most part since many of us see the manosphere men as undesirable we don’t dare about dating y’all or anything like that. But there’s a level of annoyance that some of y’all talk about us because it feels like some of y’all are trying stop our traction (because it’s a great time to be a woman), the manosphere Brehs make us feel like yall want to go back to the good ol days when things were very beneficial for men but not us. :yeshrug:
Well not "us".

I may have shared my experiences with women but you will not find one quote of me disrespecting black women.

And, you can find quotes of me saying men are not entitled to women just because we are men.

Any man trying to "stop women's traction" is wasting his time. Not because of "women and their ways" but because he could be focusing on bettering himself as opposed to whining about shyt you don't have no control over.

It's less about women, and more about what is taught to men at a young age that doesn't coincide with our experiences that leave us confused.

But it really isn't different than any other group of folks in this country.

The stereotype becomes the unfair representation.

And much like everything else in this country. It's not about finding solutions. It's about polarizing ideas that we can get emotional over.

And just so we're clear, women being barefoot, pregnant in the kitchen is not a solution. Hell, most of the men that preach about "the old days" and wanting a "submissive" woman ain't even in a position to be worth "submitting" for.

No different than the chicks calling in saying they want a man with 6 figures and they have multiple children.

And both men and women are having conversations amongst themselves preaching maximum gains with minimal amount of effort.

Nobody wants to compromise.

Instead of both genders loudly proclaiming who they won't date and what they won't put up with, how about they spend time becoming more desirable to the people of the opposite gender they actually do want to date.

But naw. It's easier to call a woman a whore on an internet forum because she didn't wanna fukk you.

It's easier to say "All men ain't shyt" because the men you've picked weren't bringing anything of substance to your existence.
 
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appreciate the honesty. And I feel you on the fact that an angry incel can decide that he wants to get incel clout by shooting up a school or killing random "roasties" Again you could say that Black Men don't normally do that shyt but there's been cases of the DC sniper being an incel and and the majority of Brothers who decided to kill up some Cacs were incels too.

But as long as you understand that if women harshly wakes up a simp and show him that #handsomegang eats for free then he might feel aways.

really the answer is to legalize prostitution and cut welfare. That way if the chick wants to prioritize #handsomegang she can shoot her shot at the most clouted nikkas she can find. If shorty becomes a single momma ran through and rather not get hard dikk and bubble gum she can activate the simp step dad retirement program.

Now the incels seem right about this the only reason why they want to demonize tricking while promoting simping for attention (with no guarantees that he will even smell the p*ssy) and raise expectations for bytches by literally giving women money and make work jobs so that women can say goofy shyt like I don't need no Man is because society seems to hate Men. nikkas have to do literally ALL the things and get it out the mud just for a nikka to get in line behind nikkas smutting hoes out for free.

On Whoreable Decisions one of the hosts makes decent money but gets suffers from depression and has had plastic surgery while dating multiple dudes at the same time one is a VP at a financial institution and she said she had to take a plan B because she let a random thug (she said he put the Gun on the dresser) shoot up the club. And she wants to get married and have a family one day. She expects someone to take her seriously after admitting that she thotted all over the world.


fukk the Manosphere hoes reckless honesty will red pill the fukk out of Men.

I agree that prostitution should be legal but I don’t agree with cutting welfare. There are married working class families that are on welfare. There are people in poverty without children on welfare. And for the single parents who do get welfare it’s meant to benefit the child. It’s not the kids fault there moms and dads aren’t shyt—they’re innocent and still need to be taken care of, they shouldn’t be punished because of their mom and dads poor decision making.

And I don’t understand… are you saying women don’t work and that they get free things and that’s why they don’t need a man?

Idk, I’m not a man so obviously I don’t know about the feeling that society hates you. if the manosphere is helping y’all express yourselves then it is what it is. I don’t know any Brehs in my offline life that participate in it or even know about it so I admit that I’m removed on how it serves Brehs and what the intention is behind it.

I also don’t understand the last part of your post (the bolded) lol. It sounds like y’all get upset because Brehs that women like better get p*ssy easier, while y’all have to do more work to get it. If the latter is the case find women who really like you or you can always just stop pursuing women and get a fleshlite and watch your porn, and call it a day. I don’t know what the solution is for that one. :yeshrug:
 
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Well not "us".

I may have shared my experiences with women but you will not find one quote of me disrespecting black women.

And, you can find quotes of me saying men are not entitled to women just because we are men.

Any man trying to "stop women's traction" is wasting his time. Not because of "women and their ways" but because he could be focusing on bettering himself as opposed to whining about shyt you don't have no control over.

It's less about women, and more about what is taught to men at a young age that doesn't coincide with our experiences that leave us confused.

But it really isn't different than any other group of folks in this country.

The stereotype becomes the unfair representation.

And much like everything else in this country. It's not about finding solutions. It's about Polarizing ideas that we can get emotional over.

And just so we're clear, women being barefoot, pregnant in the kitchen is not a solution. Hell, most of the men that preach about "the old days" and wanting a "submissive" woman ain't even in a position to be worth "submitting" for.

No different than the chicks calling in saying they want a man with 6 figures and they have multiple children.

And both men and women are having conversations amongst themselves preaching maximum gains with minimal amount of effort.

Nobody wants to compromise.

Instead of both genders loudly proclaim who they won't date and what they won't put up with, how about they spend time becoming more desirable to the people of the opposite gender they actually do want to date.

But naw. It's easier to call a woman a whore on an internet forum because she didn't wanna fukk you.

It's easier to say "All men ain't shyt" because the men you've picked weren't bringing anything of substance to your existence.
My bad I didn’t mean you specifically. But I appreciate your perspective. Very well balanced and true.
 

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Again this is Not Tommy Sotomayor talking this is a Black woman.

This song is misogyny and very destructive to Black women's image:



Carmel Barbie is Not the Hoein''
But she ain't say shyt about Love or even a nikka loving her. She's just saying don't check for her if you don't have a check for her.

Like I said she ain't the hoein' but she's letting you knowin'

Ummm yeah I’m lost..
 

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Ummm yeah I’m lost..
Don't take shyt personally I don't know you you're probably a good person.

In Fact my whole thing is about how society lies to Men. The hearts of the #Metoo issue is that Men are these sex beasts and women are extremely intimidated by Men and their sexual energy. Most women aren't gonna suck a dude's dikk because they tell them to.

It was like this story of the white solider who went AWOL when she deployed to Iraq I heard about on NPR when they were about to court martial her she said the reason she didn't want to go back was because her sergeant demanded sex and she was surprised that her Female Commander told her to get back to work.

I get long winded on here but what happened is she was fukking her supervisor to get out of work and went they went back to the states she kept not coming to work. Her Commander knew that it was common for a female solider to get a "boyfriend" in the desert so even though her supervisor was in the wrong she covered that up and told the female private to get back to work. Then at some point she deserted. Again I'd have to give a long explaination but you know months if not a year before you deploy. The idea that a solider would feel obligated to have sex with a superior is laughable shyt is extremely common.

My point is the vast majority of times women thot it up because that's what they want to do.

I worked some weird jobs so I've seen things like I knew chicks who became strippers at Underground Clubs because they reasoned if they danced at a regular club someone may see them and embarrass them but if some one seen them at a UG club and someone said What are you doing here? She'd Selling p*ssy and obviously you're here to buy some p*ssy.

I've seen dozens of chicks turn their first trick and they almost all said it was nothing to it.
 

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I agree that prostitution should be legal but I don’t agree with cutting welfare. There are married working class families that are on welfare. There are people in poverty without children on welfare. And for the single parents who do get welfare it’s meant to benefit the child. It’s not the kids fault there moms and dads aren’t shyt—they’re innocent and still need to be taken care of, they shouldn’t be punished because of their mom and dads poor decision making.

And I don’t understand… are you saying women don’t work and that they get free things and that’s why they don’t need a man?

Idk, I’m not a man so obviously I don’t know about the feeling that society hates you. if the manosphere is helping y’all express yourselves then it is what it is. I don’t know any Brehs in my offline life that participate in it or even know about it so I admit that I’m removed on how it serves Brehs and what the intention is behind it.

I also don’t understand the last part of your post (the bolded) lol. It sounds like y’all get upset because Brehs that women like better get p*ssy easier, while y’all have to do more work to get it. If the latter is the case find women who really like you or you can always just stop pursuing women and get a fleshlite and watch your porn, and call it a day. I don’t know what the solution is for that one. :yeshrug:


I think society in general believes that Men need to stand on their own feet, so no welfare for grown ass Men and as far as women let Simps do their jobs.

As for brehs being Mad that they can't get women first of all in the bolded example some High Value Man is sharing his "girl" with a a random thuggo and she could've gotten pregnant by the goonie. Just from an imagine angle that makes the HVM look goofy for dealing with her.

Besides shyt always looks crazy from the other perspective let's a breh likes pawgs are You saying that Black women generally wouldn't have a problem with that? Look at the Fresh n'Fit situation those clowns said they didn't fukk with Black women the Gonzo talk aside Black women were in the their feels.
 

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I think society in general believes that Men need to stand on their own feet, so no welfare for grown ass Men and as far as women let Simps do their jobs.

As for brehs being Mad that they can't get women first of all in the bolded example some High Value Man is sharing his "girl" with a a random thuggo and she could've gotten pregnant by the goonie. Just from an imagine angle that makes the HVM look goofy for dealing with her.

Besides shyt always looks crazy from the other perspective let's a breh likes pawgs are You saying that Black women generally wouldn't have a problem with that? Look at the Fresh n'Fit situation those clowns said they didn't fukk with Black women the Gonzo talk aside Black women were in the their feels.
It feels like damn if you do damn if you don't
 

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I also don’t understand the last part of your post (the bolded) lol. It sounds like y’all get upset because Brehs that women like better get p*ssy easier, while y’all have to do more work to get it. If the latter is the case find women who really like you or you can always just stop pursuing women and get a fleshlite and watch your porn, and call it a day. I don’t know what the solution is for that one. :yeshrug:
No disrespect to the guy you quoted, but he's kinda what I'm talking about.

I saw his post about some woman letting a man have unprotected sex with her and expecting to have a family one day.

I mean. So.....she can't want that for herself because she had sex with a guy you think she shouldn't have?

That doesn't make sense.

And clearly this is a woman he doesn't know in real life, and wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with.

So why spend any of your time dwelling on the standards of women you aren't interested in in the first place?
 

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No disrespect to the guy you quoted, but he's kinda what I'm talking about.

I saw his post about some woman letting a man have unprotected sex with her and expecting to have a family one day.

I mean. So.....she can't want that for herself because she had sex with a guy you think she shouldn't have?

That doesn't make sense.

And clearly this is a woman he doesn't know in real life, and wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with.

So why spend any of your time dwelling on the standards of women you aren't interested in in the first place?
Ok dude would You allow anyone that you take halfway seriously to do something like that?

I'll admit I've seen too much, I heard of female soldiers hoein' small base camps in the desert. I've seen Frank and Hotlips situations where chicks committed adultery and went back home to their husbands like nothing happened. I've seen female do the same travel trick thing that they talk about dudes doing in Fact Jamaica is a travel trick spot for Ladies not Men.

When I was in Africa I saw way more repat ADOS women with their trickin situations than I did with ADOD dudes.

Again the only issue is a chick wants to do whatever she wants and expect the Simp step daddy stimulus plan to activate at a time of her choosing.

Caramel actually said that the 'sphere was radicalizing Men some might attempt violence but the vast majority will just treat ém like their Baby daddies treated them.
 

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Ok dude would You allow anyone that you take halfway seriously to do something like that?
The simple answer is no.

And that's the amount of time I've spent focusing on those type of women.

Now I'm hoping the steps I'm taking now will make me desirable to the women that I do want.

I'm the new guy in my office and there's some attractive women where I work.

Still need to work on my confidence.
 

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Well not "us".

I may have shared my experiences with women but you will not find one quote of me disrespecting black women.

And, you can find quotes of me saying men are not entitled to women just because we are men.

Any man trying to "stop women's traction" is wasting his time. Not because of "women and their ways" but because he could be focusing on bettering himself as opposed to whining about shyt you don't have no control over.

It's less about women, and more about what is taught to men at a young age that doesn't coincide with our experiences that leave us confused.

But it really isn't different than any other group of folks in this country.

The stereotype becomes the unfair representation.

And much like everything else in this country. It's not about finding solutions. It's about polarizing ideas that we can get emotional over.

And just so we're clear, women being barefoot, pregnant in the kitchen is not a solution. Hell, most of the men that preach about "the old days" and wanting a "submissive" woman ain't even in a position to be worth "submitting" for.

No different than the chicks calling in saying they want a man with 6 figures and they have multiple children.

And both men and women are having conversations amongst themselves preaching maximum gains with minimal amount of effort.

Nobody wants to compromise.

Instead of both genders loudly proclaiming who they won't date and what they won't put up with, how about they spend time becoming more desirable to the people of the opposite gender they actually do want to date.

But naw. It's easier to call a woman a whore on an internet forum because she didn't wanna fukk you.

It's easier to say "All men ain't shyt" because the men you've picked weren't bringing anything of substance to your existence.
I’m so proud of the conversation the two of you are having. It’s so damn healthy.:mjcry::wow:
 

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I’m so proud of the conversation the two of you are having. It’s so damn healthy.:mjcry::wow:
I didn't call her a bytch.

She didn't call me a bum ass nikka.

We not getting angry.

No multiple back and forth quotes arguing about nonsense.

Who'd a thought such a thing would be possible on The Coli. :mjgrin:
 
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