Encourage your wife to use Tinder for a confidence boost Brehs....

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I tell my female friends this all the time. I tell them the average dude ain't eating off tinder or bumble. It's all the women trying to fukk the same small percentage of guys. I had a bunch of normal in-shape dudes all show them their dating apps and all had less than 20 matches. Meanwhile every women (most of them overweight and not that cute) had hundreds of matches. So I was explaining to them that just cause they matched doesn't mean the dudes would actually date them. But women have that fake confidence to where they think they'll win the guy over that's out of their league. Then when they get pumped and dumped they want to claim that "men ain't shyt" or that "men are dogs".

The worst case was my fault. This cute married chick that I got drunk and made out with. She was a friend of a friend so hit me up on Facebook throwing the p*ssy at me. I told her I made a mistake and I respect relationships too much to ever fukk her and it was just a drunken fukk up. Well that got her wondering what else was out there and thinking she could upgrade from her husband. She started telling me she was getting a divorce. I asked what was wrong with her husband and she said he's a great father and a sweet guy but boring. I told her to tell him that and try and spice things up. Instead she got divorced, damn near got knocked up from fukking a DJ in the backseat of a car within a month. fukking a new dude every month. Sure enough none of them actually wanted to stay with her. Now three years later she's bitter as shyt and mad at her ex-husband for meeting a new woman and moving in with her while she can't keep a man and is just getting used left and right by dudes on dating sites who get the p*ssy and don't want to stick around.

its the algorithm as well, example you can create a account on say hinge, if a few ugly women swipe you and no "hot" chicks then all you see is ugly women. However if a few hot women swipe you , you'll mainly see attractive women. As well as a man you create a new account the first day your profile is at the front but then it dwindles and soon you're way at the back of the line, that's why they implement "boost" and all those other premium ish they want you to pay for.

And yep even fat ugly looking women have a gazillion matches, a fat hideous chick who you wouldn't even look at has 200 simps in her inbox

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As far as this thread my ex taught me quick to never play that game of comparing suitors. I remember being hype cause I was getting hit on what I thought was a lot and like an idiot made mention to it. She told me "do you really want me telling you ALL the times I get hit on". She worked at the mall at the time and told me to meet her in there for lunch. She got stopped 7 different times by dudes trying to get at her just walking down one wing of the mall to where she was meeting me. Point taken.
 

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Reddit is full of white guys making up stories to push that cuck bullshyt. At this point it’s safe to assume all that relationship shyt is just a creative writing exercise for people bored in quarantine

Edit: so y’all can stop quoting me on this shyt.

I never said it doesn’t happen or it can’t happen. This applies to all that relationship talk on Reddit.

Yea, they do make shyt

We need that proof first
 

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:mjlol:Wow This is the shyt that goes on behind closed doors :wow:

nikkas refuse to realize the power of the p*ssy. For every 1 like you receive, a chick will receive 300+ of all types of thirsty nikkas. He should have worked on himself and make himself more desirable instead of pushing her to other nikkas.... :smh: :russ:
 

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Keep saying it. Women only want men that other women want to fukk. When they think other biitches are on your dikk, don't go out of your way to prove them wrong. Let their minds run. The moment she realizes you are a square getting 1 like then it's a wrap. You are now food to her.

Breh needs to collect all that evidence, find a lawyer and start the divorce proceedings. She belongs to the streets fam
I go out of my way to let my Girl know when another girl compliments me
 

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Reddit is the home of fake internet stories for dap fishing,clout chasing, e-applause, e-sympathy.

Needless to say it's :duck:.

Entire site is trash. Just lies, elaborate stories and more lies.
You know it’s way more shyt than that on Reddit right? There are threads on stocks, porn and everything. I don’t get it when y’all say it’s all racist cacs cuz I seen black people on there in black subreddits and everything
 

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I don't know about this case. There are men AND women out there who are not into sex or they have low libido. Not every case has someone stepping out.

I just saw this one..



"Not into sex" and "low libido" just means they're not attracted to their partner. They are getting fukked by someone else that turns them on
 

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Until he gets exposed I'm inclined to believe him. Men raised in the 70s, 80s and 90s are part of the first few waves of single mother households and feminism in the media.

Theyve grown up thinking that paying attention to their mother's moods and feelings will make them a good man. So many of them grew up hearing their mothers talk shyt about their fathers and other men in general, so these cats think "if I'm patient, selfless, kind, empathetic, and try to give women the benefit of the doubt, theyll reciprocate this"

Of course they end up getting their wakeup calls because theyve overcorrected and gone too far in one direction instead of being balanced and recognizing they should have boundaries and dignity as a man. One of the comments summed it up perfectly

Dignity is one of those things that can slowly cause you to not want to live when you lose it, but is the type of thing that makes you get up out of bed and take care of yourself and people important to you when you have it.

I'm inclined to believe this because I've had friends who went through similar things as the dude in the story and it's one of the #1 reasons I'll never commit to a woman who isnt genuinely happy with her appearance and gets personal fulfillment from family and friends. If a woman has body issues and no strong connection with family or friends then it's a woman you under no circumstances commit to. That kind of woman will suck the life out of you and make you miserable. I've seen it happen to too many close friends.

One of my oldest friends is a pretty boy Puerto Rican. Has always had bytches throw at him, bad bytches too.

Well he winds up dating then knocking up, then marrying a homely looking Guatamalan chick who was always insecure about how good he looked and how she was always the lesser looking one (and she gained Hella baby weight).

Guess who ended up cheating?
 
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No man can compete with the sexual

allure of a woman.They rule & own

the power of persuasion.A king has his

concubines, but the typical man will never

possess that kind of power.Women do,

tho.At least 80% of the male population

is a concubine for women.Online dating

sites are nothing but a harem of male

thots.For every two pieces of puzzy a man

can get on there, a woman can collect

200 dikks.Dudes be thinking they macking,

to:pachaha:..You just a flea on her clit.

Another disposable, interchangeable

scavenger in a sea of disposable

scavengers.All that pimp tactic "keeping

her in check" shyt is quickly going extinct.

In this society, if a woman wants to

unleash her inner sex Dragon, you can't

compete.Pandora's Box is open at this

point.
 

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One of my oldest friends is a pretty boy Puerto Rican. Has always had bytches throw at him, bad bytches too.

Well he winds up dating then knocking up, then marrying a homely looking Guatamalan chick who was always insecure about how good he looked and how she was always the lesser looking one (and she gained Hella baby weight).

Guess who ended up cheating?
Sad thing is dude probably thought dating a below average woman would be a breeze. nikka probably thought she'd be more likely to stay if dudes werent hollering like they would it she was a dime. Women with strong faces and weight issues are among the top 3 in difficulty to date and come with more baggage than an airport.

The ideal is a woman who is mentally healthy (or has made significant progress and is still seeing a counselor/attending religious services), good looking without a complex about her body and has a strong bond with her family and has long time friends from when she was in high school or college that seem upstanding and good when you meet them.

I refuse to commit to a woman who doesnt have solid time tested friendships, a good relationship with her family, and a realistic and healthy relationship with her appearance. Most negus raised in two parent households or with a parent that is really thorough already know this. A lot of young men out here need to have this shyt broken down for them and get put on game.
 

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Women who get a lot of attention usually know how to handle it better than women that don’t. Clearly his wife wasn’t getting any attention like that in the real world so tinder was like oh my I didnt know nikkaz liked me like that. They learn the harsh reality once they have there first tinder date and get pumped and dumped. After a few times this happens then reality starts settling in. The man in the story just needs to cut his losses and feed her to the wolves. If he’s in shape and takes care of himself he will be quicker to find a long term partner then she can.
 
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Women who get a lot of attention usually know how to handle it better than women that don’t. Clearly his wife wasn’t getting any attention like that in the real world so tinder was like oh my I didnt know nikkaz liked me like that. They learn the harsh reality once they have there first tinder date and get pumped and dumped. After a few times this happens then reality starts settling in. The man in the story just needs to cut his losses and feed her to the wolves. If he’s in shape and takes care of himself he will be quicker to find a long term partner then she can.

Yep....an average dude that's open to committing and has his shyt together will always have options. He might end up with 2 or 3 women that would cook for him, cuddle and actually want a relationship. She'll get 50 dudes trying to fukk and then 3 or 4 guys that want a relationship but are worse options than the man she already has.

Men either stay the same or trade up...women almost never trade up unless they get married and 1st divorce really early.
 
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