I tell my female friends this all the time. I tell them the average dude ain't eating off tinder or bumble. It's all the women trying to fukk the same small percentage of guys. I had a bunch of normal in-shape dudes all show them their dating apps and all had less than 20 matches. Meanwhile every women (most of them overweight and not that cute) had hundreds of matches. So I was explaining to them that just cause they matched doesn't mean the dudes would actually date them. But women have that fake confidence to where they think they'll win the guy over that's out of their league. Then when they get pumped and dumped they want to claim that "men ain't shyt" or that "men are dogs".
The worst case was my fault. This cute married chick that I got drunk and made out with. She was a friend of a friend so hit me up on Facebook throwing the p*ssy at me. I told her I made a mistake and I respect relationships too much to ever fukk her and it was just a drunken fukk up. Well that got her wondering what else was out there and thinking she could upgrade from her husband. She started telling me she was getting a divorce. I asked what was wrong with her husband and she said he's a great father and a sweet guy but boring. I told her to tell him that and try and spice things up. Instead she got divorced, damn near got knocked up from fukking a DJ in the backseat of a car within a month. fukking a new dude every month. Sure enough none of them actually wanted to stay with her. Now three years later she's bitter as shyt and mad at her ex-husband for meeting a new woman and moving in with her while she can't keep a man and is just getting used left and right by dudes on dating sites who get the p*ssy and don't want to stick around.
its the algorithm as well, example you can create a account on say hinge, if a few ugly women swipe you and no "hot" chicks then all you see is ugly women. However if a few hot women swipe you , you'll mainly see attractive women. As well as a man you create a new account the first day your profile is at the front but then it dwindles and soon you're way at the back of the line, that's why they implement "boost" and all those other premium ish they want you to pay for.
And yep even fat ugly looking women have a gazillion matches, a fat hideous chick who you wouldn't even look at has 200 simps in her inbox
commitment is the male vagina,
Wow This is the shyt that goes on behind closed doors

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..You just a flea on her clit.