Ever been in a relationship where you couldnt feel comfortable being 100% you?

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For both the brehs and brehettes.

Kinda stolen from another forum.

Meaning, there was something about the other person you found attractive and drawn to so you decided to date. But over time, you realized you were withholding who you truly were just to maintain and cultivate the relationship without contributing to its downfall.

It could be anything really. She hates horror movies and you love them. She's all about septum piercings but you prefer ass tattoos. So on and so forth.
 
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Never anything major. I like to crack jokes on any and everyone. My girl is sometimes sensitive and insecure so I tone down the jokes around her (most of the time :lolbron:)

I never just outright change my personality just for the sake of a person though. That's just a recipe for disaster or unhappiness. :francis:

Yeah, I agree. But sometimes for the sake of the relationship some people may subdue their extreme likes or dislikes for the betterment of the relationship.

You toning down jokes is you just being a good dude.

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But yes... I think anyone who has fallen in love with someone has done that.

people hold up walls from previous relationships and the more walls that are broken down the more opportunities a person has to connect and build with the person they're in love with
 

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For both the brehs and brehettes.

Kinda stolen from another forum.

Meaning, there was something about the other person you found attractive and drawn to so you decided to date. But over time, you realized you were withholding who you truly were just to maintain and cultivate the relationship without contributing to its downfall.

It could be anything really. She hates horror movies and you love them. She's all about septum piercings but you prefer ass tattoos. So on and so forth.
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All the fukking time :mjlol:

I'm only honest with my cat, my sister, and my grandma :mjlol:

And if you're 100% honest with me, I truly question your reasons :francis: everybody only shows who they want to show :childplease:
 

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All the fukking time :mjlol:

I'm only honest with my cat, my sister, and my grandma :mjlol:

And if you're 100% honest with me, I truly question your reasons :francis: everybody only shows who they want to show :childplease:

Of course it makes sense to be honest to a certain degree. I'm not going to tell my girl something that would hurt her feelings.
 

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Yea I don't let myself be too goofy m/reactive around females I'm attracted to.

It's cool to be goofy af around your fam or homies and say weird ass shyt when I'm bored.

Idk if anybody feel that way too. I try to be composed act like nothing suprise me.
 

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Yea I don't let myself be too goofy m/reactive around females I'm attracted to.

It's cool to be goofy af around your fam or homies and say weird ass shyt when I'm bored.

Idk if anybody feel that way too. I try to be composed act like nothing suprise me.

Only when I become truly comfortable with a lady do I just chop it up with her about anything and everything. But once we get to that level... the inside jokes and cutting up is non stop.

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