The setting the mood thing is big
I don’t care to have to warm my girl up throughout the day sometimes
The women who knew how to initiate or didn’t need elaborate foreplay/build up to get in the mood get the most dikk.
If a girl is prissy and expects to be treated like a delicate flower every time before we smash, there will be days I opt to just rub one out
For example: A nikka should be able to hop out the shower, stand naked in front of his chick and she just start sucking me off without me even having to say anything. Thats the ideal situation