Ever feel like cutting your friends off?

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I honestly feel like cutting off a large sum of my so called friends. I feel like its a part of life. My parents no longer talk to most of their friends.
I feel like I'm growing up and becoming a different person in another phase of my life and I can't fully change because I have to keep my old self around to satisfy my friends. My friends, each and every one of them piss me off in a certain way.

Two friends of mine are always on my nuts by always trying to come over to play 2k and drinking the entire weekend away. Sometimes I tell them no because I feel like they are always over. They always try to point the fact that we only hang out on our free time because of college. But that's just it I don't always want to spend my free time with you guys because my free time and relaxation is so little. They always make it seem like I'm being selfish when I don't want to throw in money for something ot staying in my garage all night to hang.

Then I have a close friend who's changed. Our plan was to go to a certain school together. This nikka took a semester off and went to work at a factory/selling weed on the side. Now he got money to spend he all aggressive and think he the shyt. nikka always trying to go in on me on some disrespectful shyt. When I don't want to drink liquor with him, because he likes that nasty 12 dollar shyt, he's always calling me out as soft and as a p*ssy like nikka I just don't want to drink damn. But when I do drink with him hes even worse. For example, I bought a bottle for his birthday and a few weeks later I asked on fb who want to drink beer with me. He said he was down as long as I paid. I said sure. We go to the liquor store and I'm like what beer should we get? He tells me don't get beer. I'm like that's what I want thought. He then does some fake shyt talking about "I can just go home then I can drink at the crib." Why you even hit me up when I specifically wanted beer / Then hes always making other sly remarks like hes just overall better than me.

I have another friend who has the qualities of doing great shyt but this nikka moved back and just gets fukked up to the core.Plus he hangs out with some fake ass people I strongly dislike. I see them being stuck in our hood forever doing the same old shyt till their dead and I'm cool on that, only focusing on getting fukked up and seeming cool like we are still in high school lmao.


then i just have a friend who just does nothing with his life. I mean literally he just sits at home. He been outta school for years and doesn't plan to go to college it seems. He has no job. He literally baby sits and just smokes weed.


Tell me am I wrong for just wanting to move on from everyone?

 

[Freedman]

Stop all that pillow talking nikka

 

[Dominic Brehetto]

Yes, I do and I have done it.

Its part of growing up. Some people never do and thats the problem.

Had 1 bum ass friend like 26 years old dude hasnt worked for years and doesnt hustle. Just lives off his parents. So if you wanna hang out you gotta pay for him. Finally cut him off. Wasted so much eneegy trying to hook him up with jobs and shyt.


Or another friend like 30 now still selling weed living in a basement like hes 16.

 

[Silkk]

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Stop all that pillow talking nikka

Why when it involves my life and time? What you recommend?

Yes, I do and I have done it.

Its part of growing up. Some people never do and thats the problem.

Had 1 bum ass friend like 26 years old dude hasnt worked for years and doesnt hustle. Just lives off his parents. So if you wanna hang out you gotta pay for him. Finally cut him off. Wasted so much eneegy trying to hook him up with jobs and shyt.


Or another friend like 30 now still selling weed living in a basement like hes 16.

you told them you not fukking with them anymore or did you just like completely erase them without warning and put on that ignore game?

 

[Vert1]

106. The higher you rise, both physically and spiritually — but mainly spiritually — the more all the creatures around you fade away and slowly disappear. Your parents, friends and relatives, not to mention the person in the street, become dead, can hardly be said to exist for you any more, while all the great figures of the past that all these shortsighted little creatures deem "dead", the philosophers and conquerors, gradually come alive, until one day they are all around you. You play at the higher level, where no one ever truly "dies", and where titanic forces are still waging their eternal struggle in which the pathetic little creatures all around you are not even important enough to be considered pawns; but dirt, atoms, nothingness.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

106. The higher you rise, both physically and spiritually — but mainly spiritually — the more all the creatures around you fade away and slowly disappear. Your parents, friends and relatives, not to mention the person in the street, become dead, can hardly be said to exist for you any more, while all the great figures of the past that all these shortsighted little creatures deem "dead", the philosophers and conquerors, gradually come alive, until one day they are all around you. You play at the higher level, where no one ever truly "dies", and where titanic forces are still waging their eternal struggle in which the pathetic little creatures all around you are not even important enough to be considered pawns; but dirt, atoms, nothingness.

what I got from this is I'm evolving as a person. I realize all the bull shyt around and decide I don't want to be in it.

 

[Dominic Brehetto]

Why when it involves my life and time? What you recommend?




you told them you not fukking with them anymore or did you just like completely erase them without warning and put on that ignore game?

I just started getting more distant,not making plans with them. Sparingly talk to them. Found other things to do with my time. I wouldnt say I straight out ignore them I just keep them at a distance now. Maybe every few months see them for a night out.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

True friends are invaluable, to me it depends on the reason.

Also i think it depends on the thing that bonded you guys in the first place. If that thing is no longer a factor, the friendship is on the clock

I think that's it. Friendships based on eternal things, don't end.

 

[Jahbarri]

Sounds like a down low gay love affair brehs




You sure are promiscuious

 

[360dagod]

the foundation of the friendship might be there. but nikkas move on..

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup, I don't have social media. Just stop messaging back and they get the point

 

[Groot]

106. The higher you rise, both physically and spiritually — but mainly spiritually — the more all the creatures around you fade away and slowly disappear. Your parents, friends and relatives, not to mention the person in the street, become dead, can hardly be said to exist for you any more, while all the great figures of the past that all these shortsighted little creatures deem "dead", the philosophers and conquerors, gradually come alive, until one day they are all around you. You play at the higher level, where no one ever truly "dies", and where titanic forces are still waging their eternal struggle in which the pathetic little creatures all around you are not even important enough to be considered pawns; but dirt, atoms, nothingness.

i am groot?

 

[FlexPavilion]

Once you progress and your friends stay in the same place, they start sneek dissin and throwin shade. It's either jealousy or some repressed psychological fear. They body themselves, basically. I have no choice to keep it short and eventually ignore the lames. I had this happen with 2 close friends.

 

[blockburna420]

Yea its part of growing up, I hit that wall last summer and made the decision to keep my distance. In the past 3 months 2 friends have been killed honestly I seen it coming, 2 of my brehs just got raided by the DEA on the 7th but they both solid dudes I pray everything works out for the best. I just feel like enjoying what I worked hard to accomplish don't really need to be on the scene I got my own scene.