Ever had a chick that bushed you try to spin back?

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Brehs. Ever had an ex or a shorty that bushed you try and spin the block later (weeks, months, years)? What did you do when they did try and run it back. This can be a thread for brehs contemplating taking back a chick that left them.


No I’m not down bad just a conversation

 

[skyrunner1]

All the time. Its dam near like clock work, Its literally law in my friend group. We tell each other "they always come back".. As long as you treat em decent enough, handle your business when its time to get down and depending on the terms it ended its a very high percentage they gonna come back, even just to keep they body count down..

The bar is very low out on them streets, having your shyt together and the stuff above will have them come back a couple times atleast from what I have seen. I will say this was more common back in day tho, nowadays (last couple years) these girls are savage and have no issue running they numbers up..

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

All the time. Its dam near like clock work, Its literally law in my friend group. We tell each other "they always come back".. As long as you treat em decent enough, handle your business when its time to get down and depending on the terms it ended its a very high percentage they gonna come back, even just to keep they body count down..

The bar is very low out on them streets, having your shyt together and the stuff above will have them come back a couple times atleast from what I have seen. I will say this was more common back in day tho, nowadays (last couple years) these girls are savage and have no issue running they numbers up..

Sounds like simp provider shyt and you the rebound. A woman trying to get back with you is just foul.

 

[Swirv]

Yea seen her in a parking lot and she called me over to chat. My breh was pulling some new chicks a couple cars over and I left the convo in mid sentence to join him. I could tell from the look in her eye, she respected that.

 

[Phantum]

Probably said this before but I was trying to get at this chick for a while back in the day, she gave me her number and we texted but she kept fronting when I wanted to actually meet so I stopped talking to her.

I was out to eat with another girl one time and randomly she was at the table right next to me eating with her fam. I didn't look at her once, pretended she wasn't even there.

Next day I get the "hey" text and how she saw me out. I was like really? I had no idea


Long story short she was down to meet immediately and clapped cheeks until I was done with her.

 

[Kenyan West]

I've never been bushed, I always inadvertently sabotaged the relationship myself with my emotional unavailability.

They always come back in a nikkas life, as the streets is lacking in quality black brehs. But I always made them regret that decision, I had that dog in me Imma need about twenty if you tryin to do that, aye aye aye

I also never in my life wanted a girl back, it was just natural to me, I'm one of the few brehs out hea who at the end of the day truly prefers being alone and that always worked in my favor.

 

[old pig]

always!

problem is I don’t be wanting them back

living well is truly the best revenge…so if I can reach a state where I’m doing better w/o you then there’s no need to run it back

 

[Pimp]

All the time. Its dam near like clock work, Its literally law in my friend group. We tell each other "they always come back".. As long as you treat em decent enough, handle your business when its time to get down and depending on the terms it ended its a very high percentage they gonna come back, even just to keep they body count down..

The bar is very low out on them streets, having your shyt together and the stuff above will have them come back a couple times atleast from what I have seen. I will say this was more common back in day tho, nowadays (last couple years) these girls are savage and have no issue running they numbers up..

Whatever made you go your separate ways will always be there.

 

[Notley]

Always. Most of the time, I don't blame chicks for leaving. The relationship is going to be on my terms. Women can only handle it for about a year. Then they think the grass is greener. I let them leave, and I don't burn bridges. I wish them well.

When they come back, the key is to just pick up having fun. Don't rehash what happened. Women will try to use that convo to assert their vision of the relationship. I don't want to hear it. My way or the highway.

 

[Ahadi]

Yes. Usually because their options run out. Approaching the big 30 & a few from high school / college are reaching out.

Like I got “Ciara’s Prayer” on my forehead

 

[8====D]

All the time!

They'll bush you, have an army of babies with dead beats, and then want you to come save them when they're struggling and down bad BAD.

Some of them I laugh at and clown.

Some of them I get the head from. . . then leave

No mercy for anyone who downplays me.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Yes.

And I might have taken her back if she didn't decide to become a full time black man basher which she doesn't know I know she is.

 

[MikelArteta]

Sometimes, sometimes I've never ever heard from them ever again.

 

[Estarossa]

Yeah she rolled out the red carpet for us to get back together a couple months ago but I was already with someone else so I politely turned her down…

A lot of these women have never been treated properly in relationships so they’ll remember a man who did right by them. Unless they’re just a piece of shyt…

 

[skyrunner1]

Whatever made you go your separate ways will always be there.

Agreed. Not talking about getting back into relationship