Every race of men vehemently opposes their women dating/marrying out - Why is there the expectation that black men shouldn't?

[Micky Mikey]

Mexican men will be ready to murk you if they see you dating their women.
We already know how white men operate. They created entire networks of propaganda to demonize black men due to their fear of becoming a minority
Asian men seethe in hatred when they see their women dating out
Arabs will be ready to stone a chick to death if they see their women dating a black man

Now, I'm not against IR dating. I've dated out before. I've seen beautiful IR couple who're happy in IRL.

But why is there always this expectation that black men should take the higher road? To be above all of that?

 

[JNew]

Because its racist.

and racism is just another form of insecurity.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

be white supremacists brehs

 

[Phitz]

Because its racist.

and racism is just another form of insecurity.

you have to have power to be racist, black men can only be prejudice in the west, but not racist

 

[BlackMajik]

be white supremacists brehs

He listed more than white people

 

[KamikazePilot]

Who cares who a random black woman is fukking they’re so many more important things to worry about than that.

Like y’all gotta get your head in the game man and stop worrying about useless shyt.

 

[Mowgli]

Where's that expectation coming from because n1ggas hate on white boys with cute sistas all the time. Same sh1t everyone else does. Give a long stare, an incredulous glance or will straight get at your girl in front of you.



Best to look and not talk though because you might be staring at someone that knows Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu a little to hard.

 

[ALMIGHTY GOD]

because we live in a gynocracy.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I think you know why bruh…

 

[karim]

you have to have power to be racist, black men can only be prejudice in the west, but not racist

I was about to say the same, but the point about insecurity remains valid. I am not entitled to other peoples bodies, hence who black woman (or any other person) date is none of my business.

 

[Commish]

OP..

IMO you are making gross generalizations.

Yeah, there are men of all ethnicities that oppose IR relationships, but there are a significant amount of men from the same groups that don't give a shyt as well..

Some are even cool with it. It just depends on the person.

As for people having expectations of Black men...

Who are these people? Do these people know the Black men well enough for their expectations to matter?

See..

At some point you have to realize and accept that there will always be people who isn't going to like you, respect you, function with you, etc. NO MATTER what you say, do and feel about it!

It's like Yelp reviews. There will always be a segment of people who will give bad reviews.

So what?

Anyone who is an anti IR need to either do something about it or keep their opinions to themselves!

No grown person is gonna allow some insignificant bigoted jerk dictate who they can or can't date/marry!

Same bigoted people isn't going to allow others to prevent them from being bigots.

People should be allowed to do what they wanna do that's within the law and code of ethics!

 

[Seoul Gleou]

because you touch yourself at night

 

[High Art]

Those groups understand the implications and know that such shows they care about their women and group overall. In the black community, you show you care by not caring and acting like everyone else does not exist, regardless of what they are doing. That's how a good black man rolls.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Most Black men don’t care. Especially if the woman is average or below average. That’s why a lot of Black women are mad at us.

 

[LadyJ2]

Let’s keep it real - if a woman dates a man of another race that race of man feels like she is advertising that her racial male equivalent isn’t good enough for her.

Women face that same stress when black men date out - it advertises to others that black women aren’t good enough.

Because the relationship/marriage market is steeped in privilege, any chink in the armor lowers your privilege and thus your chance at securing the mate you want. We are all impacted by it.

This is why interracial dating is and will always be a topic of conversation. We are all tied into it even if we are married.

Is my marriage seen as “less” because it is bm/bf or is it “better” because of that?