Not really I know for me when I had my car accident and almost died, changed my whole outlook on life and got so much closer to my family than I've ever been.
As well if it my accident had occur just 5 minutes later I probably would have frozen to death as only one car travelled on that road the whole time I was waiting in the middle of nowhere.
I remember when I got moved from my department and I was pissed thought I was being sabotaged only two years later my former department doesn't even exist anymore and many people who were mingling in rumurs about me lost their position
I just control in life the things I can control everything else is out of my hands so I don't stress over it.
Sometimes it takes awhile to see the bigger picture.
it's the motto of people who accept the current situation and refuse to better them selves IMO