Experienced Father's....

[FREDDY RUGER]

So i have a 8 year old son and although I've been in his life since birth I didnt necessarily embrace a father hood role , I had him when i was 15 , So ive always did my parts financially but jus recently in the last 14 months started doing like random school visits, being the parent teachers call etc. Taking him for weeks at a time and having him stay with me.


Here's the dilemma. Being raised by his moms gma and great gma He acts like a p*ssy. Mad jumpy when u say something with bass in your voice etc. Now i have and always will love my son to death , but i also dont really like him. Hes my spitting image, smart as h*ll, but he act soft af. Am i f*cked up for having these thoughts?

 

[Gold]

Subs. I feel like this happens more than you think op, regardless of who raises them. I have siblings, raised by the same parents obviously, who act very differently than i do

 

[Umoja]

Assuming you're not trolling, you are fukked in the head. You shouldn't be thinking of your son as a p*ssy. He's 8 years old which means you are able to teach him how to be a man.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I mean.... that's 100% your fault breh.

If he's 8 there's still time to make a man of him, but make no mistake you did this to him.

 

[Ian Ahbaa f/ Area51]

You were probably the same way at his age..not expecting you to admit it, but consider it may be in his genes

 

[MMA]

bytch ass nikka left his son to learn how to be a man himself and is upset he isn't like him

 

[Oldschooler]

This has to be a troll thread. Wtf nikka he's an 8 year old kid probably still thinks girls are disgusting. What do you want him to do so he wont be labeled a "p*ssy"?

 

[FREDDY RUGER]

Assuming you're not trolling, you are fukked in the head. You shouldn't be thinking of your son as a p*ssy. He's 8 years old which means you are able to teach him how to be a man.

Teach him to be a man, handle your business, handle whatever problems confront you. Yea. But he act soft af sometimes. Like a lame. His mom side is caked up if that matter.

I mean.... that's 100% your fault breh.

If he's 8 there's still time to make a man of him, but make no mistake you did this to him.

Like i said above, im not worried about guiding him to manhood. The point is, i don't think ill like the man he becomes. Which in the grand scheme of things doesn't matter i guess....like just because a stranger handle his finances handle his own business raise his family dont mean you and him gonna like each other... Mutual respect yea but

You were probably the same way at his age..not expecting you to admit it, but consider it may be in his genes

I was and u might be right im not puttin on no fronts online cause im solidified n real life and only getting better.

bytch ass nikka left his son to learn how to be a man himself and is upset he isn't like him

Wat do u mean left my son? I've been in his life since NICU b

This has to be a troll thread. Wtf nikka he's an 8 year old kid probably still thinks girls are disgusting. What do you want him to do so he wont be labeled a "p*ssy"?

Not be so soft idk maybe my expectations are unrealistic. This is my only kid so its not like i got a blueprint to this sh*t b

 

[010101]

his fundamental wiring is based off female traits

it is what it is

that's some deep conditioning to be undone

accept it

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[Ill-Mind]

That's what typically happen to a lot of our boys who grow up without a father. You simply gonna have to go hard and be present to undo a lot of his feminine behaviors and instill some masculinity into him.

 

[Ian Ahbaa f/ Area51]

I was and u might be right im not puttin on no fronts online cause im solidified n real life and only getting better.

as you should breh..these years are the years that will mold your son into the young man he becomes rs. this will be the years his childhood memories mostly consist of. get him more and really bond with him doing things you both like..

my son just turned 10 and he acts exactly the way i used to at his age : calm, collected, protective and sarcastic af. i pray he doesn’t inherit my nonchalant attitude in adulthood cause now days i’m just “meh”

 

[Marc Spector]

Not a father but speaking as someone who was a child that was an extreme crybaby...get that boy in sports. After my Third year playing football i completely changed my demeanor. I knew how to deal with force/stress/ and aggressiomn

 

[Marc Spector]

With that said, dont be a bytch and call your 8 year old son a lame because he isnt demonstrating acceptable masculinity to you, a grown ass man.

 

[blockburna420]

nah i was talking to my homie , and he always talks about how his son is soft because of his mother. I guess his son came to him about being bullied and his son say he got roasted because of his breath, my home boy just looked at him and said "Well is it true?"

 

[cheek100]

As a father never give up on your child, soft or not.
Soft is ok at 8. U can work with soft.
But spoiled now u have a problem. Don’t let him get spoiled.
Best thing is to get him in some sports, away from the tv.
DONT GET HIM NO PHONE