Extroverts, how does it feel to be the life of the party?

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Let's have a change of pace from all the flooding of Introvert threads


#ExtrovertGang, how does it feel when you arrive to a room or group of people, everyone is like

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How does it feel that even if you say a wack joke, everyone would be like

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How does it feel to be great at leading groups?

How does it feel to strike up a conversation with a random person, and talk like ya'll known each other for years?



#ExtrovertGang, we here :blessed: :pachaha:
 

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I've often wished I could meet someone that could do for me what I do for them. Just for a change of pace.

It definitely is all about energy thought as intros circulate it within and extros share it without so its interesting to try and flip the script and "think different" as so much of our behavior is autopilot but then this happens:



As people are fiending for a hit of your perspective, presence and personality.

The random conversation part is dope though as I've changed peoples entire minds with some on the spot line to fill time, just because, as well as met some real interesting folk as an extro acts like the sun on a wallflower and they quickly bust it open.
 
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An extrovert don’t equal life of the party. For some reason nikkas always gotta go extreme when talking about introverts and extroverts. Most people somewhere in the middle. Introvert don’t mean recluse and extrovert don’t mean life of the party.

Then it’s this thing on the internet, where everyone is an introvert and it’s so difficult to interact with people. nikka stop. To be real, a lot of y’all nikkas full of personality, but just lame as fukk. So nikkas hide behind being an introvert and act like they can’t handle or don’t want social interactions. Naw nikka, just say you scary and lack confidence with your woe is me face ass. We got threads on here where majority posters bragging about NOT having friends over the house. Low self esteem having ass nikkas
 

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I’m an introvert and it’s annoying. The breaks come off the train when I drink. Being an introvert who’s capable of being social is just draining :snoop:

This proves what I said about intros circulating their energy within and outros with other people. The fact you shift when drinking and find it annoying suggests an underlying issue with confidence and self expression and could be something as "simple" as the time you made a drawing as a jit and was real proud of it, showed it to a parent and they were already pissed about something else and gave you an unexpected and demoralizing reaction.

These I call Patterns. People are filled with them and you can generally tell when they're in effect as they make you feel miserable, stifled and inauthentic. Its also the root behind a lot of substance reactions and the whole "They're a totally different person when they're..." movement that everyone sees, but few spot.

Try this for a bit:


Its not what I use explicitly for Patterns but it is the first step I recommend to everyone who wishes to better themselves, gain Self knowledge and be more present in the moment as the Inner Sense within never left, its always been waiting for you to heed its call to action and this is it.

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A lot of people are living lives like a hose with a kink in it and wonder why their consciousness drips in spurts with an immense pressure blocking things up within in ways they can't truly express but feel, nonetheless, and why it was all so different as a jit before the blockage crept in. It can be undone. Should you wish.
 

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Once again the only difference between introverts and extroverts is that introverts recharge with alone time, extroverts recharge by being around people. That's it. It has nothing to do with social skills.

All this shyt happens to me and I'm a natural introvert. People meet me and are shocked when I tell them I'm an introvert.
 
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