Family members constantly asking to borrow money unappreciation

[Soundbwoy]

My sister wanted me to co-sign a loan for an undisclosed amount a few months ago and now she’s asking for 1500$ and trying to guilt trip me into loaning her money I’m going to start cutting off irresponsible family members and somehow I’m going to be the bad guy

 

[The Guru]

Undisclosed amount As in undisclosed to you?

 

[Streetcar]

At first it didn’t bother me and I didn’t even ask for the money back but now I’m just sad they haven’t figured it out yet. I’ve found they are borrowing from others at the same time and just putting themselves out.

Man I hope they get it together I really looked up to these people and still do.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Undisclosed amount As in undisclosed to you?

She said it was a lot of money as if I would randomly co-sign her, mind you last time I loaned her money she gave it back 2 weeks late and wasn’t returning my calls

 

[TheDarkskinnedDrake]

Family tries to punish you for not messing your bread up nah you messed up you gotta own and and live with it

 

[The Guru]

She said it was a lot of money as if I would randomly co-sign her, mind you last time I loaned her money she gave it back 2 weeks late and wasn’t returning my calls

Start asking for favors as soon as you are asked for money Imposing yourself. See what happens.
But maybe just being straight is the best. Who knows.

 

[Umoja]

When they ask how you're doing, complain about bills and working long hours. If they ask to borrow money before asking how you're doing, shame them for not asking about how you're doing before complaining about bills and working long hours.

 

[Bubba T]

Co-signing on a loan. Lmao. Hope you didnt do it, cause once you do, you cede all power to her.

 

[69 others]

I don't play that shyt. Had one cousin called me out of the blue a few years ago for 500, straight told him nah and good luck with that. Haven't heard from him since

My family know I'm a cheap mean nikka so they don't even bother these days cause I'll straight embarrass a motherfukker

 

[Ohene]

At first it didn’t bother me and I didn’t even ask for the money back but now I’m just sad they haven’t figured it out yet. I’ve found they are borrowing from others at the same time and just putting themselves out.
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Well said
Its the Worst

i just hate the entitlement

i dont lend to family anymore

 

[Ohene]

My sister wanted me to co-sign a loan for an undisclosed amount a few months ago and now she’s asking for 1500$ and trying to guilt trip me into loaning her money I’m going to start cutting off irresponsible family members and somehow I’m going to be the bad guy

Cut them off and don’t feel any way about it
The more you bail ppl out the more you enable their stupidity

 

[Jaylen Tatum]

My sister does the same thing, it's like she thinks because I don't have kids I got money to just give away.

 

[Ozymandeas]

I’m the youngest in my family yet my sisters ask me for money

 

[Vandelay]

My sister and my nephew do this often. I cut my nephew off. About to fall back heavily from my sister if she keeps it up.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Lol that’s why you set the precedent early like I did. I HAUNTEDmy family members til they paid up as a kid so they just stopped asking