Family members owing you money Unappreciation Thread

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Yeah I feel you. These days if I let somebody borrow money I don't expect it back. My brother does this shyt all the time. But I stopped giving him money because of it. I paid for a whole chest tattoo for the nikka and when I bring it back up he'll be like "I'll let you hold a blunt for it bro". I'm just like nah I'd really prefer the money but whatever :unimpressed:
 

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Loaned my cousin that I only talk to twice a year $600 dollars for a down payment on a vehicle, oneh he probably can't afford may I add.

Fool called me out of the blue talking about "I got a Audi I want to buy, but I got a few things I need to clear up and blah blah blah, hey could you lend me some money". Wasn't a high amount, he needed help, so whatever.

Haven't heard from him in 6 months now. Ain't even been in the car either. I wanna press him for the money but he has a wife and a child.:francis:

Anybody else got some stories to share?

Edit: Forgot to add, his cell line doesn't work anymore. :pachaha:


That was your mistake right there. You should never give money to people who can’t afford sh*t!
 

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if you 'loaning' money just be prepared to never get that shyt back so loan what u can afford to lose

with that said, if u not my momma or pops i aint giving u shyt
 

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Theres a reason why a nikka who only talks to you twice a year asked you for 600. He either got a denied by everyone else or he knew you would fall for it.

Should of said no OP what's the worse that was gone happen he would stop talking to you lol.
 

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The only person I'd ever lend money to is my granny and I don't care if she pays me back or not. If it's anybody else they're stupid for even asking.
 

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Man listen :francis:

A few months back my sister had the bright idea to move to a new state without a job lined up, any money saved, and her three kids along with her. She didn't have anywhere to stay, so I paid for her a week at one of those weekly rentals. It was $581, $225 of which was a security deposit I was to get back in two to four weeks following an inspection. I put the room on a credit card I paid off back in January that had no balance on it. I knew she was on hard times, so I said don't worry about paying me back. Just make sure I get my security deposit back so I can put the money on the card.

Five weeks pass and I still don't get the security deposit back. She's like, "I don't know what to tell you. I followed procedure when I left. :hubie:" so I go down there to see where's my check. The guy tells me that I'm not getting it back because there was a hole punched in the wall, so I call her to see what's going on. Dude shows me pictures of the hole while I'm on the phone with her and she admits it, saying it was just a small crack that was there when she got there and one of the kids touched it and the whole thing fell apart. :francis:

Then she says she'll pay me back on the following Tuesday (this was a Saturday) because Wells Fargo is closed and she had to work on Monday, but Monday night/Tuesday morning she gets her car repossessed and flees town in her oldest daughter's car, which they had been trying to hide from the repo man. Now she's been giving me the runaround for weeks, first saying she doesn't have the money, then saying she'll give me $100, then she'll give me the final check from her job (which is only about $150, and I can't do anything with anyway because it's in her name).

She currently owes damn near everyone in our family money, so I highly doubt I'll see a dime of what she owes me back. :francis:
 

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sorry but u silly in this scenario.

buying an audi isn't a necessity nor did the situation sound like an emergency. he could've gotten a cheaper car. this was no emergency. i dont know how much car cost but audi makes luxury cars, right? so u helped him buy a luxury car. would u help pay for his vacation? plastic surgery? boys' night out? no. cuz those are luxuries

he should've exhausted every alternative before asking u for money

if u aren't pressed over $600 then drop it cuz yeah i'm sure his wife n kid unfortunately would need it more dealing with him, and there is no point being stressed out over something minuscule in your world. just see it as a $600 lesson u won't repeat
 

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Loaned my cousin that I only talk to twice a year $600 dollars for a down payment on a vehicle, one he probably can't afford may I add.

Fool called me out of the blue talking about "I got a Audi I want to buy, but I got a few things I need to clear up and blah blah blah, hey could you lend me some money". Wasn't a high amount, he needed help, so whatever.

Haven't heard from him in 6 months now. Ain't even been in the car either. I wanna press him for the money but he has a wife and a child.:francis:

Anybody else got some stories to share?

Edit: Forgot to add, his cell line doesn't work anymore. :pachaha:
your tag under username reads "think a crackhead paying you back", though
1.2.3.4.5.6.7.8.9. iT'S the TEN FAMILY AMENDMENTS



re-read rules 6, and 7 of the Biggie song, chief

*yes, I wrote amendments, not going to blaspheme
 

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When it comes to lending my philosophy is simple, never lend more than you are willing to say goodbye to.

I done had people call on some “oh my God they cut the power to our house. They said we owe like $1200. Please can you lend me that?”. I be like “Yo I had some shyt come my way, I can lend you $100 to help with that tho”. At the end of the day I know i ain’t never seeing that shyt back. People that are bad with money don’t all of a sudden get good with it when you lend it to them. They always thankful and so sincere when you give it to them, but after a while you just become another bill collector. I avoid that bullshyt upfront.
If they ask for a certain amount....I give them half, free and clear.....and block their number
 

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Only loan money you can afford to lose. Once i give it I don't expect back, although i obviously don't say that to the person and finally if i don't get paid back i make sure to never give another dime to that person again.
 
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