That's a false dilemma. The existence of LGBTQ people doesn't erase the value of strong heterosexual couples or traditional families. Both can thrive simultaneously. In fact, traditional families can still thrive in a world where LGBTQ people live authentically, contribute, and build families of their own. Strong communities are about people, not rigid roles or who loves who. Trying to pit one against the other is just a way to justify bigotry.
That is the crux of you entire argument about civilization.I didn't say lgtbq couldn't live along side heterosexual community.
It's still wrong no matter how you look at it. Biologically and socially, especially for the black community where strong black men are needed more than ever against white supremacy. The white man loves nothing more than a soft feminine black man. It wasn't feminine black men who fought against slavery, protected our neighborhoods from Klans, and fought during the violent Civil Rights Jim crow era.