Fatherless Brehs Check In: How Did You Overcome Being Fatherless?

[Free White & 21]

Also, i wouldn't change my experience for anything in the world. It made me who i am today and i'm happy with myself. But ALOT of us aren't lucky enough to get thru that shyt, gain some clarity, and be prosperous

 

[92Inc]

Come my little children

Thanks for all you do

 

[tater]

Weirdly enough, I consider my father the better parent, even though the only time I got to see him was when he'd waved at me as he drove past me when I walked home from school everyday until he died when I was 6 or 7. I kinda wish my mother was in the car with him when he crashed.

Didn't really bother me growing up without a father, even though I feel like I missed/missing out on certain things only a father/male role model can teach you.

Damn...why do you feel that way?

 

[Stay Seeking]

It bothered me more once I got older and had a son of my own
I look at my son and don't understand how a father could abandon their seed
I don't get it

...you have to be a serious coward, heartless, and just a fukked up individual.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I become friends with a meerkat and warthog, made music, used natural instinct to survive and got enlighten by a drugged out baboon



.........Then I caught a body when I murdered my uncle

 

[GoPro]

Didnt bother me at all. I was never jealous of dudes with their pops. Never on that Will Smith "why he dont love me man" bytch shyt. I've had people tell me I should get in contact with my pops. Iont need nothing from that dude.

When I think of it, literally the 5 dudes in my grow up crew that had their pops around ended up worse than me. All of them have at least one baby mother. Two of em been to jail for a stretch (brothers, same abusive pops). Three of them still live at home, one his mooching off his baby mama.

 

[Mr. Negative]

100% honest post?

got my heart broke too many times by trying to follow the "bytch nikka" programming my mom and family had stuck in my head, when I thought I had been fighting that shyt for years

realizing I had lost everything financially by catering to not shyt women like the ones I had been surrounded by my whole life

realizing I had been surrounding myself with those same not shyt women because I was constantly trying to fix the issue I had with my mom and family by finding women with the same fukked up tendencies and trying to fix them with said women

realizing that the excuse that women have at base level (I'm angry and fukked up because a man did bad things to me) was bullshyt and it wasn't my job to put up with or fix those issues just because I was a man

Hanging around my cousin. We're very much alike, except he lost his MOM at a very young age. I'm not gonna lie.... I used to shake my head at the amount of womanizing fukkery he would be involved in, but being around him made me feel.... fake.

Being on the coli and seeing dudes had the same hangups with women that I did and had those same hangups for the same reason

Mr. Muthafukkin' eXquire's "Kismet" album

Teal Scott

Listening to a HELL OF A LOT of Suga Free on the daily. Not because I'm trying to pimp hoes or because I feel like women = bytch this and hoe that... but because it keeps me in the mind of not putting up with 9.5/10 things women do to get over just because they're women.



I'm just saying it's been a long ass progress and this is me scratching the surface.

 

[Ski Mask]

Damn...why do you feel that way?

I won't go into details about it, but I know my siblings lives(especially my older brother) would've turn out better. I was lucky considering my aunt raised me, so the only thing she did to me was steal from me/aunt and take back the only christmas present she got for me.

 

[Gully Bull]

Parents divorced when I was like 4 because my dad was more of a party going out type of person and my mother wasn't. Also, growing up in Guyana, my father was accustomed to smoking and drinking as a day to day thing which led to arguments etc. didn't really see him much as I was getting older, but my grandmother said he did really care about the well being of my sister and me. He ended up passing away just over ten years ago when he was released from a local jail at night(public intoxication) and was then ran over by a car and dragged 100 feet. It is what it is.also his side of the family never fukked with us because my mother is 100% Indian and he was 100% Portuguese. He was already 51 when I was born.


I read a lot of books growing up on everything I could and became book smart. Late teens I was spiraling out of control till family pulled me to the side and taught me street smarts.

 

[Patriarch]