Fathers with sons, come share some wisdom

[The Guru]

I took in my cousins three months ago, got them till May. I'm trying to drop as much knowledge on them as possible till that time.
They're 9 and 15 now, 15 year old is mildly autistic.

They have a lot of catching up to do and i'm trying to play my part, any knowledge you think i should drop on these kids? I've been focusing on independence, responsibility and pride, fairness and respect.

 

[IpushFatKids]

I took in my cousins three months ago, got them till May. I'm trying to drop as much knowledge on them as possible till that time.
They're 9 and 15 now, 15 year old is mildly autistic.

They have a lot of catching up to do and i'm trying to play my part, any knowledge you think i should drop on these kids? I've been focusing on independence, responsibility and pride, fairness and respect.

 

[Hammer]

tell them do to lots of drugs and have lots of sex

 

[Malta]

Dropping "knowledge" is pointless, set examples for them to follow, kids will emulate what they see.

 

[The Guru]

Good point. Especially for the oldest, words don't stick.

 

[SFW]

Don't underestimate how much these kids will watch and try to emulate what you do. Be positive with your thoughts and actions when you are around them.

It's good that you are making a big effort breh. Three months already is a long time so hopefully you have already had a positive impact on them.

 

[The Guru]

Thanks breh i'm trying. It's slow going with the autistic kid but that was expected. I just got this lil sumbish to ride a bike in traffic, took hours of struggle/talking/force. had me Still can't stop him from talking to himself all the time and scratching though.

 

[DallasTxRep]

Words go one ear and out the other at that age. Just show them how to live right by example
Show them u care then they'll want to make u proud and will be afraid to disappoint u
Make sure they hang around good people