I'm in that situation now. Met my ex late 07, we got serious around late 08 and moved to Seattle together around the beginning of 09. Couldn't work our problems out so we broke up and I moved to sc the summer of 2010, I have 2 or 3 gf's since I been her and x amount of jump offs. Her and her whole fam (moms, 4 sisters, grandmother, and great grand mother) moved to the DMV late 2011. She begged me to let her come down here and see me for my birthday in march of 2012 and she pretty much been comin back ever since (I go up there to see her sometimes too). We been talkin about gettin back together and me movin up there wit her for a few months now, I honestly do love her and wanna do it but we got problems we gotta get str8 first