Fellas: These are the women you'll have to settle for if you aren't married by 27

kevm3

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Mid-late 30s I'll give you, but late 20s to early 30s still has plenty of options.
Any man in his late 20s and/or early 30s who is looking to get married sooner rather than later and wants a quality wife would know better than to go fishing in the pool of women in their early 20s. He would want someone who is looking for the same thing as him, which would be women around his age. Most women in their early 20s are not looking for marriage.
And let's be real, most people are not going to be getting married to the person they were dating at 22, people grow apart, relationships end for various reasons. Your early 20s are about trail and error getting to know who you are as a person. Even if a woman were to start looking at 22, she may not find him until she is 29.

I agree with you that a man would be foolish to try to wife up some 18-22 year old. In reality, a woman would be best served looking for her long-term partner around 24 to 30. The longer you wait after that, the harder it's going to get to get quality dude to settle down with. It won't be impossible, but it will be a lot harder. I tell dudes all the time, if you find a decent woman, get out the game. I'll tell a woman something along the similar lines. You want to get a top notch fella, if you want the best probability of nabbing him, you better get him while you're in your prime.
 

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Mid-late 30s I'll give you, but late 20s to early 30s still has plenty of options.
Any man in his late 20s and/or early 30s who is looking to get married sooner rather than later and wants a quality wife would know better than to go fishing in the pool of women in their early 20s. He would want someone who is looking for the same thing as him, which would be women around his age. Most women in their early 20s are not looking for marriage.
And let's be real, most people are not going to be getting married to the person they were dating at 22, people grow apart, relationships end for various reasons. Your early 20s are about trail and error getting to know who you are as a person. Even if a woman were to start looking at 22, she may not find him until she is 29.
lets keep it even realer tho

most women WOULD get married at 18 and up... nikkas ain't trying to marry them.

lets not act like 18-25 year old men are dying to ask them.... even better... lets not act like these young women are being asked to get married and they are turning men down

they are not even being asked... those who are, usually say yes... whether they ready or not... if it was left up to men, we'd never fukking get married.. or be in exclusive relationships.. it's usually something pushed on them with an ultimatum.. or "where are we taking this" or some shyt like that.

i'm not saying it doesn't happen. but how often have you, or the men you know, start dating a woman.... then bring up how bad they want to be in a relationship... then bring up how bad they want to get engaged.. then bring up marriage and propose??

now how many do you know were lead down that path from a woman bringing it up constantly and they were like "well i think i'm going to go ahead and do it"
 

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I'll give you that if a 18-24 boyfriend year-old were to ask his 18-24 year-old girlfriend to get married a good number would say yes.
There are still those who would, tell dude "let's wait until we are more stable" or "let's wait a few more years" until they are in their late 20s.
My cousin's boyfriend asked her about marriage last year and she's told him they should hold off for a little while. They've been together 2 years but she wants to enjoy her "freedom" a bit more because she said once they get married that means babies are not far away. She said if he asks her this year though she'd probably say yes. She's in her late 20s though and he's in his early 30s. :manny:
 

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:to: Growing old with wifey >> tricking off on young slores

Seriously these men only want sex and some food from their wives. That's it. There's so much more to life and the relationships that fill it. They act like they'll want the same things at 40 as they do at 29 as if their brains won't mature, and then they try to make other people feel ashamed for getting older. Getting older is a blessing many people would love to realize. Kids out here dying at 8 of cancer or 16 in a school shooting would have wanted a full and happy life. But nikkas out here trying to shame and put down people for growing up and living. To be honest it just makes them look psychologically unhealthy.
 

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Seriously these men only want sex and some food from their wives. That's it. There's so much more to life and the relationships that fill it. They act like they'll want the same things at 40 as they do at 29 as if their brains won't mature, and then they try to make other people feel ashamed for getting older. Getting older is a blessing many people would love to realize. Kids out here dying at 8 of cancer or 16 in a school shooting would have wanted a full and happy life. But nikkas out here trying to shame and put down people for growing up and living. To be honest it just makes them look psychologically unhealthy.
nikkas too narrow sighted
 

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Seriously these men only want sex and some food from their wives. That's it. There's so much more to life and the relationships that fill it. They act like they'll want the same things at 40 as they do at 29 as if their brains won't mature, and then they try to make other people feel ashamed for getting older. Getting older is a blessing many people would love to realize. Kids out here dying at 8 of cancer or 16 in a school shooting would have wanted a full and happy life. But nikkas out here trying to shame and put down people for growing up and living. To be honest it just makes them look psychologically unhealthy.

I definitely feel you. My best friend since middle school unexpectedly passed when we were 24. She passed from pneumonia a week after giving birth to her daughter. It hit me like a ton of bricks and made me really reevaluate life. Since then I've viewed every single day on this earth as a blessing. It's hard for a misogynist to believe this, but I truly look forward to the future (even if that means getting older). I will be happy to reach and live out my 30s and any age beyond that because life is not guaranteed. Being able to grow old is a blessing. I pray that I am able to see my nieces and nephews grow up and live adult lives.

Some people are too immature to understand that though...
 
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