Fellas would you let a female that bushed u come back?

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Y’all was just fukk buddies... you wanted to be more than fukk buddies, and SHE broke it off with you...

Now she is communicating with you again, and you still sprung on that puss cause you said the azz is phat...

There is no way you can get a W from fukking with that broad... she’s in control and even if she lets u fukk again she’s not going to respect you because you let her fukk with you again so EASILY.

Unless she offers to do some big shyt for you to help you come up financially or breaks you off some paper quit fukkin with her... and even if she does come through with some paper on a regular basis make her wait a LONG time until you fukk...

No offense b but I dont understand this logic.

We all agree that sex is cool, right?

Why should it be any damage to this brehs ego if the woman had more agency in initiating sex? HE'S STILL fukkIN, RIGHT? Not like he broke any bread or she made him bend on one knee. I mean really if she's letting him smash, no paper spent, then who gives a fukk about her perceived and vaguely defined respect level?

No shade but...according to the coli a lotta you nikkas sleep with women you have little to no respect for as is. :yeshrug:

I feel like a lotta nikkas are obsessed with the notion that every woman you fukk has to absolutely submit to you and view you as the coldest pimp to ever walk the Earth. I mean thats coo,l if you can pull that off, but its not realistic IMO. Especially as you get older and women develop their own brand of cynicism, pragmatism, and confidence to juggle multiple partners.
 

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These nikkas give bad advice. In your case, I would leave her ass alone. It’s obvious you got a weak spot for her and she know the right buttons to push.

Basically a year ago,me n homegirl we were talking and smashing. I thought it was leading to something serious then out of the blue she bushed me, told me to move on & we cut all contact

She dated another nikka since, she posted him on her social media profiles. She has since deleted the nikka, so i assume they broke up

Now we back talking & we cool. She sending me funny memes every other day & liking my pics, complementing me. She wants to hang out but its up to me when we gonna hangout. I got a med student Im talking to, Im setting up a date for the weekend, she is priority.

Im still kinda salty she bushed me but yet again the ass is phat:guilty:. I posted the ass pics last year on here.

How do you handle a woman who bushed u in the past
 

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Basically a year ago,me n homegirl we were talking and smashing. I thought it was leading to something serious then out of the blue she bushed me, told me to move on & we cut all contact

She dated another nikka since, she posted him on her social media profiles. She has since deleted the nikka, so i assume they broke up

Now we back talking & we cool. She sending me funny memes every other day & liking my pics, complementing me. She wants to hang out but its up to me when we gonna hangout. I got a med student Im talking to, Im setting up a date for the weekend, she is priority.

Im still kinda salty she bushed me but yet again the ass is phat:guilty:. I posted the ass pics last year on here.

How do you handle a woman who bushed u in the past


I have no advice to give you because every man does what he feels best in these matters, but I personally have a policy of not going backwards when it comes to women I dated in the past.

Whether the woman charged me to the game or vice versa, once it’s over, then it’s over forever! No hard feelings, but I don’t want to have some woman ping pong back and forth in my life.

I feel that there are too many available women out there to deal with someone who decided not to deal with me when it was convenient for her, then changed her mind when it was convenient for her. I am sure many men think differently than me in this regard, but that is how I see it.

OP, do what is best for you..
 
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No offense b but I dont understand this logic.

We all agree that sex is cool, right?

Why should it be any damage to this brehs ego if the woman had more agency in initiating sex? HE'S STILL fukkIN, RIGHT? Not like he broke any bread or she made him bend on one knee. I mean really if she's letting him smash, no paper spent, then who gives a fukk about her perceived and vaguely defined respect level?

No shade but...according to the coli a lotta you nikkas sleep with women you have little to no respect for as is. :yeshrug:

I feel like a lotta nikkas are obsessed with the notion that every woman you fukk has to absolutely submit to you and view you as the coldest pimp to ever walk the Earth. I mean thats coo,l if you can pull that off, but its not realistic IMO. Especially as you get older and women develop their own brand of cynicism, pragmatism, and confidence to juggle multiple partners.

Some nikkas just want puss and other nikkas prefer to have a bytch’s mind... when you get the mind you get everything that bytch has to offer... puss included...

You nikkas have trouble with these broads because you don’t know shyt about them and all you care about is about fukking by any means necessary, and when you do get to fukk it’s when the bytch dictates... it doesn’t matter if you never gave her money or became her doormat, she doesn’t respect you because she knows she can control you like a puppy with her puss because you sat when she told you to like a bytch...

All females are looking for the one guy who isn’t controlled by her puss, and when you truly aren’t controlled by it she’s going to go crazy for you because unlike most males, you aren’t led by what’s between her thighs like a mark, sucker, or trick...

I mean take a look at the dealing with women thread on here... 99% of the problems you dudes have is because you don’t know yourself, how females operate, or how to communicate... combine that with lust and desperation for sex and wonder why these females ain’t loyal, why she flaking, why she don’t wanna fukk, why she don’t respect me, and etc etc...
 
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