https://www.thecoli.com/threads/lil...year-old-son-dikk-sucked.779221/post-37629736
Unfortunately very very tragically many of our Black children are (sexually) victimized by their parents first. + the physical rape by trusted *family, community member, babysitter* that either is disbelieved when the child has the tools to tell their story, or *someone recognizes the trauma after effects*. I don’t want to be clumsy or about this-female perpetrators of the physical rape is the topic, and yes, it’s very much ignored; and enabled in the larger context by the very people who aren’t protecting them. parents/families who concern themselves with their *children’s sexuality, genitals outside of health concerns, (in expression or “performance”)..*we are passing down our trauma and horrible attitudes about sexual violence.
Rape is a very very difficult topic that brings out the ugliest of many of us. Where I’m alarmed that when these “female adult raped ____ student” threads have so so so many comments of “where were these teachers when I was around”
*the female teacher’s looks*
*these “kids” talk too much*
When I* refer to “rape culture,” this is included-that we’re very very seriously disregarding our children’s safety and well-being in many ways by denying it or diminishing. That we have such a very very long way to go on the broader topic *and* wind up in *arguments* or back and forths with actual victims/survivors where the initial rape was when they were a child, again, it’s really really really unsettling.
