Find Out The Kid Ain't Yours After 7 Years, Breh's

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I guess the game is really to be sold and not told, but I'm going to help you out.

• yes the ugly woman does have the "tall rich muscular rich guys lined up"...to fukk

Stopped reading right there dear. I see this conversation is going nowhere, you're obviously set in your ways

 

[Lord_nikon]

 

[Action Mike]

Because the world is upside down being patriarchal.

A stepchild can love you more than your biological.

You Win some and lose some. But you don't run off like a scorned hoe. Turn that L into a W.

Again no other culture accepts this.

Backwards and demonic.

 

[Kinguno]

The worse part after is the men who stay in their lives plus their family especially his mom if she’s still alive because you can’t subtract a grand baby from grandma

 

[Remote]

That's a rough situation.
I don't think I could turn my back on that child after 7 years. But certain lines would have to be drawn moving foward.

It's hard. I don't think anyone has the answers.

 

[KidJSoul]

One of the biggest con jobs society has pulled is convincing people that women are the empathetic sex.

I think as men, we are harsh in our approach but logically we are able to understand why something would piss someone off or upset them.

I'd say that women don't care, but then they end up doing shyt that puts them on death's door which makes me think it is a lack of understanding.

You ruin someone's life and then fail to understand why they're hurting. The next step is them throwing you through a window so that you can experience hurt.

Nah, this has nothing to do with men "being able to understand". You are actually being too nice to women.

Women that do stuff like in the OP do understand why it's wrong, they are just bad and selfish people. Women just play coy and play up the image that "women are good people". I still don't know why. I count tell if it's an "accountability" thing, or a self-centered narcissist thing, or just a plain old-fashioned manipulative thing since women tend to be feminine. Or all three.

 

[KidJSoul]

That's a rough situation.
I don't think I could turn my back on that child after 7 years. But certain lines would have to be drawn moving foward.

It's hard. I don't think anyone has the answers.

You'd have to go. It's actually detrimental to your mental health to deal with this, because there's a lot of feelings you have to be pushing down.

Imagine when the child grows up, and you realize increasingly that the child looks nothing like you. His ailments/diseases don't run in your family. He has personality traits that you don't.

I hate people who also play coy and are like "oh, parents adopt children all the time". Adoption is consensual. Being cheated on and duped into raising another person's child and having to stay with the child and wife legally is not consensual.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Wouldn’t the Law force him support this child financially at this point? If say she decided to take him to court for child support if he left.

Yup

 

[concise]

Real talk. Depending on what state he's in, he might have a problem on his hands.

Paying Child Support for a Non-biological Child | LegalMatch


As noted above, a family court can order a non-biological parent to pay child support in certain situations. The person will need to be a legal or equitable parent. Look to your state’s child support guidelines for more information about when this could apply. Some factors that could weigh into this decision include the following:

You financially supported the child for a significant amount of time;
You emotionally supported the child for a significant amount of time;
You lived with the child and other parent; and
You helped make important parenting decisions, like where the child would go to school or what medical treatment the child would receive.

All of this could support a case for equitable paternity if you are not a biological or legal parent of the child. This can make it difficult to avoid child support payments mandated by court order. However, keep in mind that this will also support a case for you to have custody rights over the child, which means you could fight for shared custody or visitation rights.

You can also attempt to establish someone else’s biological paternity as a defense to making these payments. However, say you acted as a father figure to a child by exhibiting all or some of the traits discussed above. Even if you track down the biological father, if they were never involved in the child’s life then the court may still order you to make the child support payments if you separate from the mother.

So as a black man you could turn your back on a black child you thought was yours for 7 years.

Nobody is saying to stay with the mama, just still treat the child as yours

If he signed the birth certificate then he may have an uphill battle. He might still be on the hook to pay child support. The judge could still make him pay and assume the role pf father.

If you're gonna do all that, would you apply for custody too?

 

[skylove4]

If you're gonna do all that, would you apply for custody too?

I would, at least joint custody

 

[vino]

If you're gonna do all that, would you apply for custody too?

Im fight to the end to get me off the support and off that certificate. I will working under the table for 18 years before that see a dime from me. No way Im taking care of a child thats not mine. The best i can do is help him find his father.

 

[Blankthawtz]

Probably was laid up with the real baby daddy while on the phone with this fool too...

 

[zerorequiem]

I guarantee there were signs, and evidently there was enough signs to get a test after 7 years.

I feel for the breh, but you can’t sit here and tell me he didn’t suspect a thing. No female is that cunning and evil, this ain’t no damn movie…you gotta be smarter than that brehs

I can't even watch the video brehs. I can imagine the pain he's going through. I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemy.

 

[Diyhai]

believe in karma bruh

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

It can be heartbreaking for a dad to learn that their child isn't really theirs because their partner was unfaithful at some point and never confessed to it. However, it can always be worse, and it sure was for one man who took to TikTok to explain what happened to him. The post is a video of him distraught and crying and in it, he reveals that he found out that his son is actually his uncle.

So how did that happen? Well the man's grandfather invited him and his girlfriend to stay with him, and during that time, the man's girlfriend wound up having an affair with his grandfather. That led to the baby boy which the man thought was his own.

It turns out his grandfather has done stuff like this before because the man captioned his TikTok post, "Can't believe I expected more from a man that had a whole other family around the cornerfrom my granny house."

In a follow-up post, the man says he still wants to be a part of his son/uncle's life but also questions why his grandfather would hurt him like this. In a different video he describes how he found out, saying his girlfriend's phone kept pinging so he checked to see what was going on and saw the texts were from his grandfather. Then he found "years'" worth of messages from his grandad including "pictures and explicit stuff

I'm not usually in support of disowning family, but this here is a prime example of why you would disown a family member.

That woman and granddad are dead to me. Especially GD. He was already on thin ice fukking around with a whole other family on granny but going around and violating my family? Nah we done. Never talking to that nikka again and my ex to. bytches whole existence is getting erased from my mind and spirit.