i go out 1-2 of times a month, but not to the club or anything like that. nowadays ill usually spend a weekend in LA, spend a day at the beach, drive to tahoe for the snow, spend a day eating at restaurants ive never been to before or go to an event/show/festival. it's a great way to relax, keeps me rejuvenated and makes life fun. it's cheaper when in a relationship since i can split everything 50/50.