First day being single in a year brehs and brehettes

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:mjcry:Man it's so cold outside.

:mjcry:There's couples everywhere I look.




Will I find the right girl or will I be :mjflat:and single?

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nothing wrong with being single, do what you want to do, travel, talk to a bunch of women if that is what you desire. Work on yourself, hit the gym, there are so many single women out there and there will always be no need to be "scared" over things you have no control over.
 

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nothing wrong with being single, do what you want to do, travel, talk to a bunch of women if that is what you desire. Work on yourself, hit the gym, there are so many single women out there and there will always be no need to be "scared" over things you have no control over.

Thank you breh, I feel like the clarity you've given me these last few weeks as this shyt has unfolded has helped put a sense of perspective on where I stood in her life and what I need to be doing.

Gym is already being hit but I'm turning up everything an extra gear. Planning on getting my own place in the next month or so, so let's just hope that this adjustment period rides by quickly. I miss her, I still love her but what can I do?

I tried and it didn't work.:yeshrug:
 

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Thank you breh, I feel like the clarity you've given me these last few weeks as this shyt has unfolded has helped put a sense of perspective on where I stood in her life and what I need to be doing.

Gym is already being hit but I'm turning up everything an extra gear. Planning on getting my own place in the next month or so, so let's just hope that this adjustment period rides by quickly. I miss her, I still love her but what can I do?

I tried and it didn't work.:yeshrug:
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What happened breh :wow:

#YouOKBreh :lupe:

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There's so many dimensions to this shyt so I'll keep it short and sweet:

Man, let's just say my stance of treating women like fodder and sleeping with multiple chicks grew tiring and I wanted someone that I could care about.

So I rang her when I wanted and she'd pick up, we saw each other when we wanted and it was amazing but just like everything she became, "busy" and the hours we spent talking turned into minutes, the conversations we once had turned into constant arguments. She looked at me dead in the eye today and told me she doesn't love me like she once did so I upped and left.

You know it's sad because I don't open up to chicks until I know there's potential for a future there but :wow: as soon as I dropped the game, she grabbed me by the balls and controlled the relationship after that. shyt aint been the same.
 

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Av :salute:

There's so many dimensions to this shyt so I'll keep it short and sweet:

Man, let's just say my stance of treating women like fodder and sleeping with multiple chicks grew tiring and I wanted someone that I could care about.

So I rang her when I wanted and she'd pick up, we saw each other when we wanted and it was amazing but just like everything she became, "busy" and the hours we spent talking turned into minutes, the conversations we once had turned into constant arguments. She looked at me dead in the eye today and told me she doesn't love me like she once did so I upped and left.

You know it's sad because I don't open up to chicks until I know there's potential for a future there but :wow: as soon as I dropped the game, she grabbed me by the balls and controlled the relationship after that. shyt aint been the same.

It's hard breh been there myself, when they tell you to your face they don't love you like that any more, and part of you wants to fight it pour your heart out or ish but you know its all a waste, all you can do is leave with your dignity and realize there will be better days ahead. And I know what you mean about not opening up, I never did for years told myself I never would, then a chick flat out asked me with tears in her eyes how I felt about her and I :snoop: since then it felt like she was "winning" knowing that she got me or ish, till i had to sever all ties when disrespect popped up.

All you can do is concentrate on the things you can control in life, can't control if a woman is going to love you but you can control on being the best man you can be and if she doesn't see it to leave and find someone who does
 

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It's hard breh been there myself, when they tell you to your face they don't love you like that any more, and part of you wants to fight it pour your heart out or ish but you know its all a waste, all you can do is leave with your dignity and realize there will be better days ahead. And I know what you mean about not opening up, I never did for years told myself I never would, then a chick flat out asked me with tears in her eyes how I felt about her and I :snoop: since then it felt like she was "winning" knowing that she got me or ish, till i had to sever all ties when disrespect popped up.

All you can do is concentrate on the things you can control in life, can't control if a woman is going to love you but you can control on being the best man you can be and if she doesn't see it to leave and find someone who does

Man I'm not proud to say it but I poured everything out to her till her fukking housemate threatened to call the police if I didn't leave. The good times were just so good :damn:

:wow: Life breh, life.

I'm going back to #HOH for a few years till I get my career and finances settled for a relationship again. I'm beginning to have a clearer idea in my mind of who I want though now.
 

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Man I'm not proud to say it but I poured everything out to her till her fukking housemate threatened to call the police if I didn't leave. The good times were just so good :damn:

:wow: Life breh, life.

I'm going back to #HOH for a few years till I get my career and finances settled for a relationship again. I'm beginning to have a clearer idea in my mind of who I want though now.

Been there after my first breakup I think I just got a aww while she was cold as ice even though a few days prior I was "her everything"

Like everything in life teaches you a experience, like next time if you are every in that situation again even if you feel like pouring everything out you just hold it inside until your alone not giving em the sanctification. Hold your head every day it gets easier then one day you wake up and your like :ehh: and that's usualyl when anothr chick pops up
 
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