First day being single in a year brehs and brehettes

[CELL]

Been there after my first breakup I think I just got a aww while she was cold as ice even though a few days prior I was "her everything"

Like everything in life teaches you a experience, like next time if you are every in that situation again even if you feel like pouring everything out you just hold it inside until your alone not giving em the sanctification. Hold your head every day it gets easier then one day you wake up and your like and that's usualyl when anothr chick pops up

She broke down and cried a couple of days ago when I left her place only for this shyt to happen 3 days later.

Honestly breh I'm done with trying to figure her out, I don't know what her motives were but I'm a big believer in karma and she'll get what's coming to her in future relationships. I remember she told me a few weeks ago she wanted to get breast implants only to get upset when I told her that was a ridiculous idea.

The writing has been on the wall for weeks.

 

[A.V.]

Av

There's so many dimensions to this shyt so I'll keep it short and sweet:

Man, let's just say my stance of treating women like fodder and sleeping with multiple chicks grew tiring and I wanted someone that I could care about.

So I rang her when I wanted and she'd pick up, we saw each other when we wanted and it was amazing but just like everything she became, "busy" and the hours we spent talking turned into minutes, the conversations we once had turned into constant arguments. She looked at me dead in the eye today and told me she doesn't love me like she once did so I upped and left.

You know it's sad because I don't open up to chicks until I know there's potential for a future there but as soon as I dropped the game, she grabbed me by the balls and controlled the relationship after that. shyt aint been the same.

Jump start that #HOH phase, breh. If you ain't heard these, you'll thank me later

 

[MikelArteta]

She broke down and cried a couple of days ago when I left her place only for this shyt to happen 3 days later.

Honestly breh I'm done with trying to figure her out, I don't know what her motives were but I'm a big believer in karma and she'll get what's coming to her in future relationships. I remember she told me a few weeks ago she wanted to get breast implants only to get upset when I told her that was a ridiculous idea.

The writing has been on the wall for weeks.

women are emotional creatures many times just crying to relieve the guilt or they just get caught up in the moment.

Trying to figure out women will put many men in the asylum, and oh trust me people reap what they sow I've seen it first hand with both of my main exes, one gloated in my face when she got married sending me wedding photos "by accident" after not talking to her for years, only to now be divorce. The other one came to my house with her fiance to tell my mom how she's gtting married , just so she could see my face as she dropped the news only to now be single

One thign I realize in life is that a woman who wants to exist in your life nothing will stop her from finding a way to do so. Not pride, not distance, not even another man, nothing. Just gotta remain steadfast in your morals and values and continuing being you and let your light shine.

 

[CELL]

Jump start that #HOH phase, breh. If you ain't heard these, you'll thank me later

Inshallah akhi

 

[CELL]

women are emotional creatures many times just crying to relieve the guilt or they just get caught up in the moment.

Trying to figure out women will put many men in the asylum, and oh trust me people reap what they sow I've seen it first hand with both of my main exes, one gloated in my face when she got married sending me wedding photos "by accident" after not talking to her for years, only to now be divorce. The other one came to my house with her fiance to tell my mom how she's gtting married , just so she could see my face as she dropped the news only to now be single

One thign I realize in life is that a woman who wants to exist in your life nothing will stop her from finding a way to do so. Not pride, not distance, not even another man, nothing. Just gotta remain steadfast in your morals and values and continuing being you and let your light shine.

She sounds like a real piece of shyt, aint no need to get the parents involved. The disrespect

Couldn't agree more though breh, she hasn't been giving me that attention every man desires from his woman properly for months. I can't force her to do it and whenever I left her to her own devices, she'd always find an excuse not to act like she used to.

A keeper to me is a woman you don't have to be #HOH to maintain her attention, it's literally as simple as that. I dropped my guard because I thought this girl deserved it.

We all make mistakes breh

 

[Malta]

Congrats breh

 

[El negrito de tejas]

Man it's so cold outside.

There's couples everywhere I look.




Will I find the right girl or will I be :mjflat:and single?

Let me tell you something bruh... Its not the end of the world and trust me in the beginning it hurts and you feel like shyt. But at the end of the day you gotta look at it as her loss and not yours. Me and you both are kinda in the same boat but mines was 6yrs.
The hardest part about this for me is getting back out to the dating scene and finding out majority of the women my age are strictly looking for serious relationships. I keep myself busy got a job, work out right after work, ,and go out with the homies to drink and holla at women.

Pick up some hobbies, work on self improvement whether it be physically, mentally, or career wise.
Its winter time cuffin season is in full effect. Spring is right around the corner

 

[Zach Lowe]

perfect time to turn your life around

step 1 stop stanning naS

 

[CELL]

Let me tell you something bruh... Its not the end of the world and trust me in the beginning it hurts and you feel like shyt. But at the end of the day you gotta look at it as her loss and not yours. Me and you both are kinda in the same boat but mines was 6yrs.
The hardest part about this for me is getting back out to the dating scene and finding out majority of the women my age are strictly looking for serious relationships. I keep myself busy got a job, work out right after work, ,and go out with the homies to drink and holla at women.

Pick up some hobbies, work on self improvement whether it be physically, mentally, or career wise.
Its winter time cuffin season is in full effect. Spring is right around the corner

Breh... I'm sorry.

Ye that's what I'm planning on doing from now until the end of the year. My main priority is getting my own place and getting my feet up so I have a platform to stand on. That's what's really getting me down in my life at the moment, this relationship amplified everything that's been hitting my self esteem.

So ye it's ended today and my plan for the week is to concentrate on ME. I haven't been doing that these last few weeks and I guess that's the little light I'm seeing from all this at the moment. My confidence has taken a huge L, it's just about building it back up because everything is raw.

 

[CELL]

perfect time to turn your life around

step 1 stop stanning naS

hahaha I appreciate the advice.

 

[El negrito de tejas]

Breh... I'm sorry.

Ye that's what I'm planning on doing from now until the end of the year. My main priority is getting my own place and getting my feet up so I have a platform to stand on. That's what's really getting me down in my life at the moment, this relationship amplified everything that's been hitting my self esteem.

So ye it's ended today and my plan for the week is to concentrate on ME. I haven't been doing that these last few weeks and I guess that's the little light I'm seeing from all this at the moment. My confidence has taken a huge L, it's just about building it back up because everything is raw.

I know what you mean. Just do something to take your mind off the relationship and all that "where did I go wrong" all its gonna do is make you mad and irritated.

Hang out with the homies and If you have legit female friends hangout with them too. Nothing like female companionship to take your mind off these type of things.

Whatever you do don't get yourself into another relationship until your finally over this woman.

The one thing Im working on is taking a trip somewhere out the country by myself too see the world. I don't know where yet but Its a much needed trip for myself.


Last thing whatever you do don't fap on any circumstances. You need that animalistic sexual confidence to approach random women you meet.

 

[RealAssanova]

Main thing now is, cut all contact from shorty. She told you she don't love you no more? Cool. But i doubt that will stop her from messaging you or doing something at some point down the line to come into contact with you. And when that time comes breh, don't respond, delete or ignore it.

It ain't even about doing this so that she comes back begging for a 2nd chance...but rather, when you do this, you start to have time on your side (which is a blessing and you'll realize this later). You begin to see things clearer than ever before and this is crucial. More importantly, your mind state goes from "damn i should've done this" " to "i did that? " or "she did that and i did this when i should've done that? "

It is when you reach this point, that you will know you are fully over her. But just know she will test you and throw breadcrumbs at you....but puck stops with you at the end of the day my sadiqi.