For men who date older women, how much does Menopause effect your relationship?

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Dated an older woman once. The main thing that shocked me initially was that her body looked .... looser.... underneath her clothes than i was expected.
Like fully clothed she was slim and petite. and you pretty much know what to expect, but her stomach looked like it was deflated. skin wasn't as tight.

I actually audibly gasped the first time i saw her naked and she got angry at me. :mjlol:

But after that it was like any other relationship. but I wasn't the most mature type of dude that an older lady would usually go for (at least i assume) so i feel like she was probably just less mature than most women her age and that why it wasn't different.
 

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Dated an older woman once. The main thing that shocked me initially was that her body looked .... looser.... underneath her clothes than i was expected.
Like fully clothed she was slim and petite. and you pretty much know what to expect, but her stomach looked like it was deflated. skin wasn't as tight.

I actually audibly gasped the first time i saw her naked and she got angry at me. :mjlol:

But after that it was like any other relationship. but I wasn't the most mature type of dude that an older lady would usually go for (at least i assume) so i feel like she was probably just less mature than most women her age and that why it wasn't different.
Sheesh....


And a lot of these older women have the nerve to high super high standards for a man to date them..

:mjlol:
 

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Dated an older woman once. The main thing that shocked me initially was that her body looked .... looser.... underneath her clothes than i was expected.
Like fully clothed she was slim and petite. and you pretty much know what to expect, but her stomach looked like it was deflated. skin wasn't as tight.

I actually audibly gasped the first time i saw her naked and she got angry at me. :mjlol:

But after that it was like any other relationship. but I wasn't the most mature type of dude that an older lady would usually go for (at least i assume) so i feel like she was probably just less mature than most women her age and that why it wasn't different.

How old was she?
 

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How old was she?
This was back when i was in highschool. She was in her mid 30s at the time.
Back then that seemed super old to me. but typing it now, i'm thinking maybe she was just badly built or my taste has changed because i date plenty of women her age now and never replicated that situation. :dead:
 

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This was back when i was in highschool. She was in her mid 30s at the time.
Back then that seemed super old to me. but typing it now, i'm thinking maybe she was just badly built or my taste has changed because i date plenty of women her age now and never replicated that situation. :dead:
FYM :gucci: that’s horrible, something def is wrong with her
 

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This was back when i was in highschool. She was in her mid 30s at the time.
Back then that seemed super old to me. but typing it now, i'm thinking maybe she was just badly built or my taste has changed because i date plenty of women her age now and never replicated that situation. :dead:

Yeah when you 15 or 16 I can see that lol.
 

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My girls sister got married last year. Her and her husband are both older. She is going through menopause and it is kicking his ass :mjlol:


They have been married a year but they fight like they have been married 20. A lot of it he realizes is out of her control. The mood swings. The irritability. Hot flashes. She also just had a partial hysterectomy and it slowly recovering from that.

Breh was thinking he was still in the honeymoon phase and shyt would be all sweet. Nah. She got a mouth on her and he don’t be taking shyt either so they clash. They then make up and take pics in matching clothes
 

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My girls sister got married last year. Her and her husband are both older. She is going through menopause and it is kicking his ass :mjlol:


They have been married a year but they fight like they have been married 20. A lot of it he realizes is out of her control. The mood swings. The irritability. Hot flashes. She also just had a partial hysterectomy and it slowly recovering from that.

Breh was thinking he was still in the honeymoon phase and shyt would be all sweet. Nah. She got a mouth on her and he don’t be taking shyt either so they clash. They then make up and take pics in matching clothes
:gucci:
 
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