For the guys that say women under 25yo dont have enough life experiences to date. What kind of experiences does she need?

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A lot of these men don't have a clue or any depth to the things they say, just parrot shyt from bitter women. But I'll give them the chance to explain.

So what are the life experiences older women have that make them more dateable/wifeable?

More sexual partners?
More sex ties?
Kids?
Heartbreaks?
Abortions?
More girl trips and traveling?


I honesty think too many experiences are the reason they aren't wifeable. Women arent built to have so sex partners and heart breaks and then try to get married.
 

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I was talking to a 25 year old the other month and I'm talking to a 35 year old. Not much difference other then the young one wants to be outside everyday of the week and the old one has more baggage.

Conversation wise it's the same thing. Maybe the older one has had more money longer to get into more shyt and trouble.
 

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Agree and disagree. More experiences doesnt necessarily make you better or healthier. Especially when you are young and dumb. You are more likely to dive head first into some bullshyt.

The issue is the age of the man. If you are 38, what are you and a 22 year old connecting over besides sex? Your outlooks on life and approaches to life are likely completely different. You may be done having kids or not want them at all. She may not even be thinking about kids yet. The shyt that was cute or tolerable because you wanted to smash when you were that age is just flat out annoying now.

But to each his own, as long as everybody grown :manny:
 

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I think it’s insecurity on the man’s part. He doesn’t want a woman his own age because she has “baggage” but he’s worried about a young woman without those “experiences” and if she might become curious later on and decide to leave his old ass for new experiences.
 

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Who said women under 25 don’t have enough life experience to date?
:heh:

People can date who they want. But I know from my own experience when I was single in my mid 30s that chicks that much younger than me had 0 to offer outside of a good time. Plus they were needy af. On top of that a lot of time their sex game wasn’t nearly as good as the women closer to my age
 

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Most women over 25 have nothing but horror stories to share.
Your threads definitely have a pattern. You might need to do some deep self reflection my nikka. The older women you attracting have nothing but horror stories. Meanwhile the younger ones are good with the occasional $25 here and there and a bottle of Don Reposado. You sound like a old trick
:heh:
 

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I was 30 and dated a few 20 year olds. Annoying conversation and it's weird dating someone who still lives with their parents.
 

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There's a lot of older men and women out there with no experience to show for it. 35 years old still living check to check.

The way I look at it, successful people likely already had good habits when young. If you meet a 36 yr old successful woman, she was already that way at 23. Success doesn't happen when you magically turn 30.
 

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IMO, her experience should be relatable to or match yours in regard to character building life in general. Being at a point where neither of you feel you missed out on anything is perfection. People in their 20s or even early 30s typically aint there yet.
 
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