For the men on this new age relationship tip...

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Are the ladies you date, in a relationship with, and or married to cool with it? Or are they hoping you change?
Examples:

Is she down with the fact that you think a ring is not needed or that you want to chill at the crib and never go out?

Is she cool with you never paying on dates?

Or how about u not wanting to get married?
Etc.

Speak on it.
 

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:mjlol:

Man yall really took that "marriage with no ring" thread to heart.

When I made that thread, I was just talking shyt and seeing if anyone women would notice the cognitive dissonance between "all that matters is love" and needing to validate yourselves with material possessions.

:coffee:
 

Marl0 Stanfield

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Yeah that's all new age fukkboy shyt. Take your bytch around your ugly ashy ass non p*ssy gettin homeboys n watch her be ready to throw that bullshyt out the window. The desperate look in her eyes every time you leave the room to go do something means you got the juice now.

If you gotta theorize about materialism with your lady then you're out of your league and you need to go back down a peg until you grow more financial hair on ur nuts. But then again, some of these new nikkaz be holding their girls' purses while their girl shops with their money for shyt that only they want, so it is what the fukk it is. U can't wake the muthafukkin dead, breh.
 

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Are the ladies you date, in a relationship with, and or married to cool with it? Or are they hoping you change?
Examples:

Is she down with the fact that you think a ring is not needed or that you want to chill at the crib and never go out?

Is she cool with you never paying on dates?

Or how about u not wanting to get married?
Etc.

Speak on it.

Who got you mad? :heh:
 

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it's not about never wanting to get married or never paying on dates or never going out/always staying at the crib. it's about her knowing and internalizing the concept of me not being obligated to do any of these things. it's about her understanding that it's always my decision to make and i won't be shamed or guilt tripped into doing something i simply don't want to do. if you want me to do something how about learning to actually make me feel like doing it instead of "you're not a real man because XYZ a real man would...". But deep down, i don't think most men mind taking care of their woman and having a solid bond with her. this is ideal. i think most men don't want to feel like their woman feel like they're entitled to it.
 

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Ain't nothing wrong with chilling at his crib but he better have a PlayStation or Xbox to keep me occupied :ufdup:
:rudy: That's why u need a thug. Mfka YOU are supposed to be the damn video game if ur at that nikka crib. If he's not even fux0rin with u while ur over there then wtf was the point of his dumb ass having u at the traphouse in the first damn place?!?:mindblown:
 

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My lady spends quite a bit of money on me, and we go out all the time, it's like she can read my mind and gets it right every time. :mjcry:

Nothing new age about it in my opinion, this is the way it should have been all along, it's just the women before me were too jaded/stubborn/ignorant to get it right.
 

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:rudy: That's why u need a thug. Mfka YOU are supposed to be the damn video game if ur at that nikka crib. If he's not even fux0rin with u while ur over there then wtf was the point of his dumb ass having u at the traphouse in the first damn place?!?:mindblown:
:dahell: what I look like being at a traphouse
 
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it's not about never wanting to get married or never paying on dates or never going out/always staying at the crib. it's about her knowing and internalizing the concept of me not being obligated to do any of these things. it's about her understanding that it's always my decision to make and i won't be shamed or guilt tripped into doing something i simply don't want to do. if you want me to do something how about learning to actually make me feel like doing it instead of "you're not a real man because XYZ a real man would...". But deep down, i don't think most men mind taking care of their woman and having a solid bond with her. this is ideal. i think most men don't want to feel like their woman feel like they're entitled to it.


This post was so beautiful I almost cried like how a baby cries:mjcry:
 

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Once I'm married I'm married. I don't believe in dating and shyt once I'm married. Because once you married you are ONE and suppose to be with each other for life. However, people don't take marriage seriously anymore. I guess I'm the only one that still does.
 
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:rudy: That's why u need a thug. Mfka YOU are supposed to be the damn video game if ur at that nikka crib. If he's not even fux0rin with u while ur over there then wtf was the point of his dumb ass having u at the traphouse in the first damn place?!?:mindblown:


Why the fukk are you bringing yor girl to the trap house?

You fukking scumbag:mjlol:


You probably have your bytches traffic dope too



Too much Rick Ross breh:niro:
 
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