For those struggling with dating apps

are you?

  • nope

    Votes: 13 76.5%
  • yea

    Votes: 4 23.5%

  • Total voters
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Mike809

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Got back on the apps late last fall after getting out of a relationship in July of last year. I dunno what changed , definitely not my looks, but I am STRUGGLING, even with the mud ducks :wtf:. I'm 40 now and hadn't been on since 36 or maybe early 37, so maybe that's it!?

I'm getting the matches but none of them are translating to dates , compared to just earlier this year when I had something
lined up every weekend.
 

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Man fk dating apps in 2025, I get tons matches, always have been since pof days and OG prime tinder days but the social dynamics are different today. Chicks put on this facade that they're boss bytches AND then still want "Princess treatment". :skip:

The thing is as deluded as they are I imagine it's 100s of desperate simps swelling they heads up so even if you tall handsome swole gang you gon have to entertain them lil silly games they wanna play even just and I ain't got time for all that.

Back in 2014-2019 tinder days it was simple. Match a bytch, talk a lil bit, invite them over, put a lil movie on and smash. It was literally that simple and easy for dozens upon dozens of them. There was a period where I had a full calender of hoes planned to come over for months:pachaha:

And like I said i think it's cause I'm in my 30s now so these broads want to be on that 'I wanna settle down' or that fake "I'm celibate until I find my husband ish" purely for dudes they communicate with online but they giving the puss for free to dudes they know in real life. :mjlol:

So with that all said I just stick to real life interactions, the real life rapport will always beat the online dynamic because at the back of a chick's mind she may think you could be some weirdo, stalker or serial killer. OR they could be insecure if you truly handsome gang.

When you introduce yourself in real life you eliminate majority of her fears, your charisma, style is on full display from the jump and its easier to shift into smashing easier the next meet up.

Not saying you can't eat online, I know fools still clean up on hinge and sht but for me personally I'm at that age where I just aint got time and patience for games like when I was in my 20s, for used up cat especially with STDs skyrocketing these days.:yeshrug:
 

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Something has definitely changed with dating.

Everyone is hella expendable now, due to apps. Easy to get rid of someone who you think is 8/10 in hopes that the next swipe is 10/10.

Illusion of choice. Paralysis analysis. We were probably better off as humans only being able to connect with people in our immediate vicinity.
 
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