Get Married Brehs: Discussion site for relationships with a complete lack of attraction

[ChrisDorner]

http://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/

Last night after my shower, I thought I'd surprise my husband with a little surprise nakedness. I walked into the living room, where we asked me something about a fruit salad I had made earlier..I came up to where he was sitting and dropped my towel, naked as the day I was born, and said ' Is the fruit salad all you want?'. He sat up in the chair and put me sittin on his lap, gave me a hug and said ' you must be desperate for sex' with one of his dissapointing faces. I said ' No, I just want to be naked with you''...Then he gave me a look I can only desribe as when a little kid is asked to do something they don't want to and followed with ' Really??'....' Let's be naked in bed later'. To avoid a fight, I just said fine, put my pyjamas on and sat next to him as he ate his f**king fruit salad.

she made up the most ridiculous excuses, and when I called her out on it, she started going out of her way to avoid the possibility of having sex. She purposely ate food that she knew would make her sick. Then she'd have an upset stomach, and I'd have to take care of her, and what kind of monster would think to ask her poor sick girlfriend for sex? It was diabolical.

I complained about the lack of sex to husband and he claims he just doesn't have a sex drive. I told him that it's ok, but if he's jerking off and not having sex with me more than once a month that there will be a problem.
Well, he denied morning sex yesterday, and must have "done the deed" between when I left for work and when he left for work since I got home before him. The pillows on the bed were stacked, laptop and lotion laying on "my side". Dude doesn't moisturize his hands and watch Netflix on the bed. There is no other reason that things would be set up like this. I just left it there and went into my bedroom.

Get married brehs

 

[Arishok]

@Fonsworth let's not end up like this

 

[Colicat]

Low key... I think I would throw the damn fruit salad at my man's head if he ever did something like that... That ether is just too cold...

Damn.... That type of rejection while naked is the type you can't recover from

 

[iBrowse]

@Fonsworth let's not end up like this

just make sure to be Providing for My needs

 

[AtomicUse]

 

[Yuzo]

He sat up in the chair and put me sittin on his lap, gave me a hug and said ' you must be desperate for sex' with one of his dissapointing faces. I said ' No, I just want to be naked with you''...Then he gave me a look I can only desribe as when a little kid is asked to do something they don't want to and followed with ' Really??'....-

one of the problems of white culture is how emotionally restricting it is meaning that its expected of white people to not show too much emotion. sometimes that can be a good and sometimes it can be bad. dead bedrooms always strikes me a being more of a white thing. you can tell from the way the husband reacted he was a white guy. a lot of the interactions white people have are like that just in general. very passionless.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I'm not sure which side is more selfish. It's stupid for someone who has a low sex drive to commit to someone who has a moderate or high sex drive if they're not going to meet their standards. The person who settles for it or expects them to change is stupid as well.

Anyone who settles and doesn't care about having all of their desires met deserves to be unhappy.

 

[Arishok]

Low key... I think I would throw the damn fruit salad at my man's head if he ever did something like that... That ether is just too cold...

Damn.... That type of rejection while naked is the type you can't recover from

He dead ass looked at her and said "Really..."

just make sure to be Providing for My needs

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Low key... I think I would throw the damn fruit salad at my man's head if he ever did something like that... That ether is just too cold...

Damn.... That type of rejection while naked is the type you can't recover from

Might as well committ that

She was naked..
what more could have she done? :mjcry;

 

[The D-List Vet]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[Colicat]

Might as well committ that

She was naked..
what more could have she done? :mjcry;

I don't know breh... I got nothing....

maybe she should have fed him the fruit salad before she showered? maybe she should have just took the D... I don't know

I didn't do the education...

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

This what happens when ugly and average looking people get into relationships together

You think us genetically gifted people have these problems

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I don't know breh... I got nothing....

maybe she should have fed him the fruit salad before she showered? maybe she should have just took the D... I don't know

I didn't do the education...

Marry ugly dudes brettas

But but but but his personality

 

[Luck]

Probably let herself go so

Just because he's her husband, he's supposed to magically make himself attracted to a sloppy mess?

Stay in the gym, eat reasonably healthy, and cool out on the vices ( smoking, drinking, etc..) and you exponentially increase your chances of your spouse staying attracted to you

 

[KOOL-AID]

Low key... I think I would throw the damn fruit salad at my man's head if he ever did something like that... That ether is just too cold...

Damn.... That type of rejection while naked is the type you can't recover from

I wish i had a body to showoff naked for ladies