Doobie Doo
Veteran

"Sooooooo..... Marriage is just a piece of paper? This is something I hear very often. Today,looking at the death of Nipsey Hussle it makes me so sad for Lauren London and her current situation. She started a family with this young man, but there are no strings attached between them. He is now deceased, and unless he has a legal will filed, she has to consult his family in order to legally make arrangements for this man's funeral. That is so crazy to me. People time waits on no man, if you truly LOVE the person you are with make it right, make it official. I do not want to hear anyone say, well marriages don't always work out, or everyone is cheating.... blahh.blah...blah these are all excuses for not wanting to make a lifetime commitment to one person. Gentlemen step up and make it right, legitimize your families and ladies don't just accept less than what you deserve. You should become legally committed to the person you choose to love for life. No one wants to be unmarried, having to ask your "special family friends" "fiance's" mama for permission to make funeral arrangements. It is so sad. "Money is just a piece of paper, but you bust your behind to obtain it." Get married, and make an attempt to stay that way, your Legacy depends on it. Disclaimer: There are some individuals that choose to not be married, this message is not for you. I am only speaking to individuals who wish to be married."