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Carpenter, 30, takes his own life after discovering his wife was having affair with his best friend, inquest hears
By Alisha Buaya For Mailonline05:10 EDT 30 Mar 2019, updated 05:10 EDT 30 Mar 2019

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  • Zoltan Benedek, 30, and his wife moved from Romania to Hull for work in 2018
  • Three months later she confessed to having an affair with his best friend
  • Hull Coroner's Court heard the medical cause of his death was hanging
  • Postmortem also found Mr Benedek was almost three times the drink-drive limit
A man took his own life after discovering his wife was having an affair with his best a friend, an inquest has heard on Friday.

Zoltan Benedek, 30, had only just moved to Hull from his native Romania in February 2018, but less than three months later he was found dead at his home on June 18 last year.

Hull Coroner's Court heard his wife had followed him to the city weeks later at the chance of a better life together and both got jobs at the same factory in the city.

But as soon as they arrived in Britain, she claims her carpenter husband stopped showing her affection and would 'not hug or kiss her'.

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Zoltan Benedek, 30, took his own life after discovering his wife was having an affair with his best a friend, an inquest has heard on Friday. He had only just moved to Hull from his native Romania in February 2018, less than three months later he was found dead at his home
She then struck up an intimate relationship with Mr Benedek's best friend because he listened to her and attended to her needs, the hearing was told.



His wife told the inquest via an interpreter: 'I told him about the affair and he suggested we go back to Romania. There was a big argument between us because of that. He seemed very annoyed.'

She added: 'He then told me to p*** off and never wanted to see me again.'
The hearing was told his wife disclosed to him two weeks before his death that she was romantically involved with his best friend after 'feeling guilty' about her affair.

Her husband began behaving erratically after hearing the revelations - despite her saying that she wanted to still be with him.

Mr Benedek had called the factory where the pair worked in Hull and told bosses that his partner would not be in because she was going back to Romania.

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Hull Coroner's Court heard his wife had followed him to Hull for the chance of a better life together. After arriving in Britain, she claimed Mr Benedek stopped showing her affection and struck up an intimate relationship with his best friend because he attended to her needs
The pair had a blazing row on the evening before Mr Benedek took his own life at their flat.

His wife told the hearing: 'I left to stay with my husband's friend that night, when I went back at around 2pm, the door was locked and I couldn't get in.

'I saw a silhouette of Zoltan at the window and then left. When I returned back at the house at 9am the next morning, I saw my key outside the door and when I let myself in, he was dead on the stairs.'

She also said that Mr Benedek drank at least three beers a day by himself, but it would quadruple if he was drinking with friends.

Postmortem analysis found that Mr Benedek was almost three times the drink-drive limit. He had 233 microgrammes of alcohol in 100ml of blood. The legal limit is 80 microgrammes in 100ml of blood.

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Postmortem analysis found that Mr Benedek was almost three times the drink-drive limit and the medical cause of his death was hanging
Ian Richardson said the medical cause of death was hanging.

Police Constable Matthew Gillot said that there was no evidence of foul play or third-party involvement.

The inquest was concluded by assistant coroner Lorraine Harris as suicide.

The couple married in 2015 after meeting in a nightclub in Romania when they were aged 21.

Zoltan was brought up by his paternal grandparents and had no physical or mental health problems throughout his short life, the hearing was told.

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This ain't just marriage.
This happens period.

We might have to start that "Get In A Relationship and Tust A Woman brehs" movement:mjcry:
 

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98 of the time, people get married for the wrong reasons
1- Cultural norms
2-Family and friends pressure
3-Age, "we/you are not getting any younger"
4-Competition "all my friends have/are getting married, it's my turn
5-Women's ultimate fantasy, a big extravagant wedding and a diamond encrusted engagement ring to show off

Marriage, like anything in life, is doomed to fail if it's not built on a solid foundation.
 
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