Getting a divorce turned the homie into a recluse...

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Agreed, OP needs to make the dude realize he has a new start with no real bagagge outside of the failure of the marriage. 2 years is too long at this point.
or maybe he doesnt want to deal with that shyt anymore. It's okay to not chase p*ssy.
 

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Dont judge him. She fukked him over. He is dealing with it his own way.

Support him or dont but dont be on that "get you some p*ssy" tip with your man. Not everything is solved by a new chick, especially when the problems were started by an old one.

Drop in and talk to your pahtna from time to time, but leave the bullshyt at the door. He needs support, not cheap thrills. Dude can off himself when you least expect it.
 

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I got a patna thats been divorced almost two years...he was married for almost 5, no kids. Niccas set him up with chicks...he dont want em. Invite him out to clubs, bars, parties ect. He says he's coming...but always flakes....all he does is chill at the crib by himself.....but the real sad part is, he says he's thinking about buying a cat. His crazy ass ex put him through hell now he's on some "fucc the world" shyt. No man should allow a female to put them on :flabbynsick: status and fucc up their spirit like this. Especially after they have their freedom back to do what ever the hell they want...I dont get it.:francis:

Maybe he wants to be left alone for a minute. I be like that when shyt is good or when shyt is bad.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
I got a patna thats been divorced almost two years...he was married for almost 5, no kids. Niccas set him up with chicks...he dont want em. Invite him out to clubs, bars, parties ect. He says he's coming...but always flakes....all he does is chill at the crib by himself.....but the real sad part is, he says he's thinking about buying a cat. His crazy ass ex put him through hell now he's on some "fucc the world" shyt. No man should allow a female to put them on :flabbynsick: status and fucc up their spirit like this. Especially after they have their freedom back to do what ever the hell they want...I dont get it.:francis:


:wtf:

You got all these threads about Brazil and you aint showed your boy the glory of all you know? What kind of friend are you :leostare: yall should have gone down there the second he got divorced.
 

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That's a long time in a relationship, and it can be emotionally and physically draining. There's no time stamp on when he should recover but for now just let him heal.

Cold part is she was probably over it long before she even left him
 

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I got a patna thats been divorced almost two years...he was married for almost 5, no kids. Niccas set him up with chicks...he dont want em. Invite him out to clubs, bars, parties ect. He says he's coming...but always flakes....all he does is chill at the crib by himself.....but the real sad part is, he says he's thinking about buying a cat. His crazy ass ex put him through hell now he's on some "fucc the world" shyt. No man should allow a female to put them on :flabbynsick: status and fucc up their spirit like this. Especially after they have their freedom back to do what ever the hell they want...I dont get it.:francis:
Damn. Homie don't know how good he got it now that he is divorced. Usually this type character change is brought on if he was married to a black woman and had kids with her and she weaponizes the court system to gets her white daddy to take 90% of his shyt leaving him destitute.
 
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