GF doesn't wanna use condoms

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How do I best put it to my girl that I'm not gonna fukk without condoms anymore? She always complains about them, but I'm not trying to be a father. If she don't wanna, I'm willing to end things, but I'm just want to know the best way to word it so she don't get upset.

Update: She just informed me she is a day late on her period.

Update 2: Mother nature came through
 
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How do I best put it to my girl that I'm not gonna fukk without condoms anymore? She always complains about them, but I'm not trying to be a father. If she don't wanna, I'm willing to end things, but I'm just want to know the best way to word it so she don't get upset.
get her on birth control. and not the pill.
 

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lol, you must be dating my ex :mjlol:. She literally pulled the condom of my dikk and threw it across the room because she wanted to have sex without it. After fighting it I gave in :mjcry:. Honestly, it was kinda scary, though she told me she was on birth control, I can never truly trust a woman and don't like not having control of my own fate. Eventually we broke up. Don't see myself giving into that again.
 

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Why trust someone who is so adamant about not using contraceptives? Yeah it feels better, but the women out here who are actually SERIOUS about not wanting to become mothers usually have no problem with condoms in spite of that. You could try to make sure she gets on BC like depo, but you'd have to go with her each time she's due for a shot - 4x a year. Or an implant, but you'd have no way of really knowing when/if she got it taken out.

Condoms - that YOU supply - and the depo shot - that YOU physically witness her getting - are about the only circumstances under which you could/should continue fukking with her.


edit: Although I did know one dude - a white boy - who dispensed his girl's BC pills HIMSELF every day and tracked her cycle with an iPhone app. Now that's too much of a hassle for most but it worked for him I guess :yeshrug:.
 

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I’m being dead serious here. ALL my friends who have an ‘oops’ baby this happened. They’d usually have a woman on no birth control. The woman then begs the man after a while to stop condoms (red flag!) and somewhere between her getting a new birth control and him trusting her she gets a pregnant.

By taking off that condom you’re putting your trust in her hands. Don’t do this...unless you truly can. But many men have fallen for this trick.
 
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How do I best put it to my girl that I'm not gonna fukk without condoms anymore? She always complains about them, but I'm not trying to be a father. If she don't wanna, I'm willing to end things, but I'm just want to know the best way to word it so she don't get upset.

Just end things.
 

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Do

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I’m being dead serious here. ALL my friends who have an ‘oops’ baby this happened. They’d usually have a woman on no birth control. The woman not the man begs after a while to stop condoms (red flag!) and somewhere between her getting a new birth control and him trusting her she gets a pregnant.

By taking off that condom you’re putting your trust in her hands. Don’t do this...unless you truly can. But many men have fallen for this trick.

This. This. This.

I nearly got caught up because my ex didn’t want me using condoms and she “forgot” to take the pill afterwards. Let’s put it this way, I should be a dad now.

NEVER have sex without condoms unless you’re cool with having children and/or diseases. If you’re a man with your shyt together, women become real blasé about contraception all of a sudden.
 

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If she don't respect your wishes, then you gotta bounce.

It's not only about the sex, she's not respecting your boundaries.

A woman isn't entitled to raw sex until she finds a man willing to put a ring on her. Before then she has to honor his wishes, if he wants to protect himself against physical or financial harm. Goes for men as well.
 
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