Drop tips or pointers no matter how major/minor to your fellow Brother
As Black American men we are the foundation of our families, each one teach one and let this thread prosper to every Brother on here
Single American Black Men with no children, please choose the women you impregnate wisely.
You have friends you know right now who have blessings (Children) but poor choice for children's mother. If you impregnate a women, make sure you intend of marrying her shortly after or if you can marry her first then have the child. Brothers who don't pick wisely, end up on child support and end up separating from the child's mother. When the child's grandmother or someone on the child's mother's side want social services (food stamps), they are coming for YOUR POCKETS automatically. Even if you think, "child support ain't hurting me", it adds up to DEBT that could soon take your LICENSE, YOUR W2 every year and it creates UNNECESSARY DEBT(hard to get a car, a house, a personal or small business start up loan and anything with credit)
Even if you feel you have to date outside your race, find the women that will help you excel to your highest point. You want a family nucleus, you want to stay far far far away from a "baby momma" "baby daddy" situation. You want to run miles miles away from that.
The State is a win win situation with child support, they are eating off you when child support starts when they didn't even have to be involved in the first place. They don't lose at all. Choose wisely, can not stress that enough
Reckless Language when you are above 25 in public
If you over 25 in adult settings with adults that are 25 and over, and you continuously at maximum volumes shout out "n1gger this n1gger that", "f^ck this f^ck that b1tch A$$ n!gga this", you are super clowned out. Most Adult Men know how to conduct themselves and that rhetoric is cool for the hood but when you in Adult settings check your age. I rarely say "n1gga" in front of any other American except Black, because the second that word slips out of their mouths - there will be no passes given. Off principle, I don't even allow them to think saying that will fly
Littering
For my inner city brothers and county brothers who think they inner city
Whenever you throw that .25 chip bag and huggy juice on the ground, you are destroying the property value of the closest house near you and lowering the value of the area. Not only that, the environment is taking a toll. A lot of us don't realize when we dump sh1t in the sewer recklessly that trash flows to different areas including bodies of water(you know like the seafood you eat) Not that hard to find a trash can
Tips at Restaurants
In America, the norm is to tip your waiter if they provided decent service. We all know these waiters get a few dollars/hour and depend on they tips, younger days some smashed and dashed, that was all fun and giggles but when you get older tipping becomes standard practice. It helps the local business you just ate it, puts a little extra cash in the waiters/waitress pockets and it's the responsible thing to do if you have it.
Sagging
For the young G's, I know no older G's still sagging they pants. Back in the day this was the style, this is not a phase no more so all the young g's out here please stop. You lamed out, your pants is sagging and a little girl is in the same vicinity looking at you. Your boy's 8 year old son just drove by you with his mother looking at you sagging, and he think it's cool to do that sh1t. A g@y n1gga that just came home looking at you as food and ready to snatch that....stop it
Add On
As Black American men we are the foundation of our families, each one teach one and let this thread prosper to every Brother on here
Single American Black Men with no children, please choose the women you impregnate wisely.
You have friends you know right now who have blessings (Children) but poor choice for children's mother. If you impregnate a women, make sure you intend of marrying her shortly after or if you can marry her first then have the child. Brothers who don't pick wisely, end up on child support and end up separating from the child's mother. When the child's grandmother or someone on the child's mother's side want social services (food stamps), they are coming for YOUR POCKETS automatically. Even if you think, "child support ain't hurting me", it adds up to DEBT that could soon take your LICENSE, YOUR W2 every year and it creates UNNECESSARY DEBT(hard to get a car, a house, a personal or small business start up loan and anything with credit)
Even if you feel you have to date outside your race, find the women that will help you excel to your highest point. You want a family nucleus, you want to stay far far far away from a "baby momma" "baby daddy" situation. You want to run miles miles away from that.
The State is a win win situation with child support, they are eating off you when child support starts when they didn't even have to be involved in the first place. They don't lose at all. Choose wisely, can not stress that enough
Reckless Language when you are above 25 in public
If you over 25 in adult settings with adults that are 25 and over, and you continuously at maximum volumes shout out "n1gger this n1gger that", "f^ck this f^ck that b1tch A$$ n!gga this", you are super clowned out. Most Adult Men know how to conduct themselves and that rhetoric is cool for the hood but when you in Adult settings check your age. I rarely say "n1gga" in front of any other American except Black, because the second that word slips out of their mouths - there will be no passes given. Off principle, I don't even allow them to think saying that will fly
Littering
For my inner city brothers and county brothers who think they inner city
Whenever you throw that .25 chip bag and huggy juice on the ground, you are destroying the property value of the closest house near you and lowering the value of the area. Not only that, the environment is taking a toll. A lot of us don't realize when we dump sh1t in the sewer recklessly that trash flows to different areas including bodies of water(you know like the seafood you eat) Not that hard to find a trash can
Tips at Restaurants
In America, the norm is to tip your waiter if they provided decent service. We all know these waiters get a few dollars/hour and depend on they tips, younger days some smashed and dashed, that was all fun and giggles but when you get older tipping becomes standard practice. It helps the local business you just ate it, puts a little extra cash in the waiters/waitress pockets and it's the responsible thing to do if you have it.
Sagging
For the young G's, I know no older G's still sagging they pants. Back in the day this was the style, this is not a phase no more so all the young g's out here please stop. You lamed out, your pants is sagging and a little girl is in the same vicinity looking at you. Your boy's 8 year old son just drove by you with his mother looking at you sagging, and he think it's cool to do that sh1t. A g@y n1gga that just came home looking at you as food and ready to snatch that....stop it
Add On
And if you going out your race make sure she's classy and respectable (and attractive). 
