I remember hearing about women going after retirement plans in a divorce. One of the first websites that pops up is this one: WISER Women - Divorce, a Time for Caution
Don’t Lose Out on Important Retirement Benefits Because of a Mistake Made by Your Divorce Lawyer. Take the example of Patricia Kingston: she was married for 25 years to a man who worked for the same company for 30 years. When her lawyer negotiated her right to the pension benefit he neglected to include a survivor benefit. Unfortunately, her husband died at an early age so she will receive nothing from his pension benefit.
They're staking claims to your bones now! 
Don’t Lose Out on Important Retirement Benefits Because of a Mistake Made by Your Divorce Lawyer. Take the example of Patricia Kingston: she was married for 25 years to a man who worked for the same company for 30 years. When her lawyer negotiated her right to the pension benefit he neglected to include a survivor benefit. Unfortunately, her husband died at an early age so she will receive nothing from his pension benefit.
They're staking claims to your bones now! 