The moral of the story is don't intervene if you ain't ready or capable of taking control.
I should've been arrested, was on family vacay, took a time out to go chill and decompress from going from one event, to the next event then back to the hotel, shower, sleep, wake up, go from one event to the next. I went to a Lil sandwich shop....some dude was barkin on his lady for 15mins. 15 whole minutes, no worker asked them to quiet down, or leave. Just ignored it. Woman starts crying, dude keeps barking. Finally I told the guy to shut the fukk up or take it outside. Guy started yelling at me and walked over to my table, bumped into it and I stood up and pushed him, dude fell back into some chairs and another table then workers started saying "hey! Heyyy!!! Enough!! Enough!!!" Run over and ask the girl if she's ok, then literally parrot what I told him "either be quiet or leave." They left.
If there was any second I thought dude could've taken me in a fight or had more aggression then me, I wouldve kept my head down or just left. It wasn't even about the broad. Cats be disciplining their kids and arguing with their spouses or enemies in public and EXPECT everyone else to just go about their business like the world revolves around them or some shyt. Take your bullshyt outside or home don't be acting a fool in public. And if your going to step to someone make sure you can take control of the situation or atleast not lose a fight.