Guy I think I figured out the key to getting a women's love

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It's simple don't be her provider be her supporter :yeshrug:. Women these days are strong they don't need a man to take care of her they want someone who's goin to Be their #1 fan for what ever they do but they also want someone who they can admire and look up to.

In a household women want to give the impression that if dads not home everything will still run smoothly. Not to prove it to a man but to prove it to themselves. When I was lil my dad use to have to go to Mississippi for work my mom use to buy the the same amount of groceries as if my dad was home. I use to be like:patrice: my mom don't make no where near my dad why is she doing that? It was to prove to herself and to us that she could do what my dad do.

Guys yu want that chick to fall in love with yu ask her what her dreams are and motivate her and stan her like yu do some of these rappers or athletes. DO NOT make her feel like she needs yu because she'll start to hate yu for it
 

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Be gentle and kind towards her. Open up to her emotionally, tell her your dreams/fears. Take the time to get to know her(aka be a friend) before becoming intimate. Let the relationship flow(start off as a gentle creek, work your way up to powerful river). Also, in case you are a giver(such as myself) RECIPROCITY Don't let anyone take advantage of you. Good luck!
 

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1. Have options with other women (or seem to have options w/ other women)
2. Make her feel somewhat lucky to be "chosen" of those options
3. Get her out of reality/the mundane from time to time..."whisk" her away and be spontaneous/unpredictable
4. Be a master of your own world so that she looks up to you in some regard but...
5. Be reasonably vulnerable with her (she gets to see a side of you that others don't...feels privileged for it)
6. Have a backbone with respect to your own beliefs, thoughts, feelings, etc
7. But provide emotional security for her in listening to her beliefs, thoughts, feelings, etc.

I'd say these are key to making a woman love you and if you think about how relationships progress, stage 1 through stage 7 plays out progressively with the order switching up depending on the woman. Number 4 is critical to building anything that lasts (she has to respect you) and explains why some women will fukk w/ you for one night but not date you. 5 through 7 is important for building something real that lasts.

Wifey women are women for which 4-7 figures are most important. Thots are women for which 1-4 are most important. The 1-4 element is at play with all women, though.

Just my hypothesis. And yeah, there's a separate list for making a man love you but it's probably shorter.
 
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