Half of the year is gone and you still haven’t hit NOTHIN..WHY?!!

[Ghost Utmost]

I definitely feel that. Had a long term relationship (4 years) dissolve last November 2021. I wouldn’t say I’m still heartbroken over her like I was earlier this year but I definitely feel numb. Apathetic. Towards meeting someone new. I just turned 38 (birthday was last month). I’m just doing me and giving myself time to 100% heal before I make a conscious effort to put myself back out there. She definitely did some damage. She will be the last woman I give 100%



Good luck though on your journey. Hope it all sorts itself out for you

It's smart to take a breather before jumping back in. In consideration of the next woman if nothing else. It's kinda mean to use someone to drown your sorrows with no possibility of actually connecting (I'm sure SOME rebounds last, but I ain't never found a new relationship immediately after one ends. Usually just a trail of debauchery for a couple years, then get serious again)

 

[Mike809]

I was jobless until june , and when I'm not making money , I don't think highly of myself.

 

[2 one 3]

Passed on some pussay last night…


I noticed if I’m not really in the mood to entertain these hoes, I flake on em





I’m sure they get annoyed, yet the still on the team…

 

[Kenny West]

Honestly my mindset feels extra warped and I can't mack properly right now. I had two one night stands this year but after that I've been drifting off of every chick I meet. I can't hold a conversation via text anymore if my life depended on it. I've ghosted or blanked 80% of the girls ive bagged this year

Its not for nothing, I've really been on my grind this year but I also don't feel it. Advancing my life seems 1000% more important and the love shyt feels like a suckers game to me right now. Maybe I stared into the abyss too long and its finally reflecting back on me. But bro....I high key don't even give a fukk anymore.
my nikkas living out R&B songs look like clowns to me. My nikkas with families register as "stuck". My nikkas who are in the game heavy seems like they are wasting time. I don't have a desire to party. I didn't think this way 3 years ago. It feels wrong in some ways super right in the others.

I feel like that old Kanye lyric " Either you gettin laid or getting paid, soon as you get one the other's slipping away"

 

[Bop Gun]

As for its easy to find, the stats for male sexleness is growing, so it cant be easy for everybody if thats happening.

That's because too many guys are punching above their weight class in the attraction department. They'll rather deny themselves the luscious nectar that flows between those thighs if it's connected to an average looking woman.


Unrealistic standards dilute a lot of relationship statistics.

 

[Child_Of_God]

That's because too many guys are punching above their weight class in the attraction department. They'll rather deny themselves the luscious nectar that flows between those thighs if it's connected to an average looking woman.


Unrealistic standards dilute a lot of relationship statistics.

That simply isn’t true. there’s dudes out there that approach women within their level in terms of looks but still get rejected. Most ugly and average looking women these days have unrealistic standards and egos due to dudes gassing them up for easy sex.

 

[Bop Gun]

That simply isn’t true. there’s dudes out there that approach women within their level in terms of looks but still get rejected. Most ugly and average looking women these days have unrealistic standards and egos due to dudes gassing them up for easy sex.

Those women deal with the reality that the guys who they really want, only see them as a human condom. The mental issues many women have out here for letting guys gas they heads up, is the chickens coming home to roost on they asses.

I couldn't care less about low quality women. Looks do not equate character.

Fellas, the women you click with, go for them. Look for resolutions to your problems. You'll end up much better off for it.