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Some of you seem to think I'm advocating following every single thing these females say down to a "T" and putting them on a pedestal. I know these women want what they see in the movies and think that shyt is real life, that's why most women go into relationships with unrealistic expectations. But there are little things you can pick out out of the lofty shyt they say and apply a practical sense to. You nikkas is fukking up shutting out women completely, that's a sure fire way to make sure you stay with the women that aint shyt, they're the only ones that'll put up with it.



There are women that aint shyt just like men, that's what nikkas get for thinking differently.

basically there isn't much courting necessary imo. either she likes you or you have something else she likes (money, status). The problem with asking women with dating advice is they'll just sell you a dream
 

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Some of you seem to think I'm advocating following every single thing these females say down to a "T" and putting them on a pedestal. I know these women want what they see in the movies and think that shyt is real life, that's why most women go into relationships with unrealistic expectations. But there are little things you can pick out out of the lofty shyt they say and apply a practical sense to. You nikkas is fukking up shutting out women completely, that's a sure fire way to make sure you stay with the women that aint shyt, they're the only ones that'll put up with it.

lol what?... I didn't say you said follow what they say to a T and I sure as hell didn't say shut them out...i'm just saying don't listen to them at all when it comes to dating...how did I learn this? by talking and listening to women...seriously, when it comes to dating, women do not give good advice at all....they don't drop anything that you can use in practical sense cause they don't think practically when it comes to dating...I know that might piss some people off, but whatever...they'll tell you shyt that they find impressive, qualities they look for, what guys should say/do, etc., but that shyt aint what they fall for when they start dating....it might be shyt that ends up keeping the man around for a longer relationship, but that aint the shyt to start the relationship....don't believe me? you can easily find out for yourself: if you have a good female friend with a man, ask her for dating advice...then ask her if that's what her man did to get with her....in majority of the cases, the answer gonna be 'no'
 

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Maybe I'm not wording it right or something, but it makes sense to me.

I've already said most women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationships. When you talk with males about women you get a male point of view, shyt you already know. When you look at it from another point of view you start to see shyt you didn't really think about before.

That's all I have said.
 

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And people actually dapped this like you and they know "a lot" of BW who feel that way???

Stop it.
Ive been smart alot longer then you have and ive been in the mix longer then you. Ive seen every angle and every angle is a mess.

A sizeable percentage of women and men in the black community are not to be taken seriously for anything outside of fukk buddies. Infidelity is a big problem in the black community.. Men feel like its a badge of honor to take a mans woman and women, becoming more and more defeminized are feeling the same way to a greater degree.

Many of these women feel they can actually build something with a man who is shytting on his family for her frail twat. Ultimately both generally act like trash heaps to one another which is a big reason why black people arent getting married to one another.

There are to many reasons not to take one another seriously and often times when someone is to be taken seriously, the other is trying to exploit a weakness to their advantage.
 

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YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO i hope this shyt is :duck:


Back in the day my Santera told me to collect my period blood and feed it to my guy. I made five oatmeal cookies and gave them to him. He ate one and left the rest on the counter. his grandmother stopped by later that day and took the rest. i haven't talked to him in years but his grandmother e-mails me at least once a week. if it's not an email to say hi then I am part of some sort of mass mailing that she sends out. he's gone on and had a child and she told me that she looks at her and wishes that it were me.
:what::dwillhuh::merchant::huhldup::damn::mindblown::birdman: Man If i found out some chick did this :rip:

you're never heard of this?...by your post, you haven't, so to answer: no, this isn't ducktales...it's an old wives tale about how women can get a man to stay wanting them/fall for them more, if they get him to eat some of their period blood....and yes, some women will do this...be careful with new chicks fixing spaghetti
 
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lol what?... I didn't say you said follow what they say to a T and I sure as hell didn't say shut them out...i'm just saying don't listen to them at all when it comes to dating...how did I learn this? by talking and listening to women...seriously, when it comes to dating, women do not give good advice at all....they don't drop anything that you can use in practical sense cause they don't think practically when it comes to dating...I know that might piss some people off, but whatever...they'll tell you shyt that they find impressive, qualities they look for, what guys should say/do, etc., but that shyt aint what they fall for when they start dating....it might be shyt that ends up keeping the man around for a longer relationship, but that aint the shyt to start the relationship....don't believe me? you can easily find out for yourself: if you have a good female friend with a man, ask her for dating advice...then ask her if that's what her man did to get with her....in majority of the cases, the answer gonna be 'no'
I agree with this alot if chicks be talking that "courting" shyt but most of the better longer relationships I did none of that shyt. We both invested in the "courting" not some sucker tax just for her prescene like she some celebrity coming to my club on Friday night. Honestly if a chick likes you IMO you don't have to do all that bullshyt because she know you going to be around (or at least thinks so) so she not trying to raid your pockets before you get ghost
 

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Maybe I'm not wording it right or something, but it makes sense to me.

I've already said most women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationships. When you talk with males about women you get a male point of view, shyt you already know. When you look at it from another point of view you start to see shyt you didn't really think about before.

That's all I have said.

what you just said isn't the same as what you said before 'getting dating advice from women'...anyway, it's cool, I get what you saying now...
 

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what you just said isn't the same as what you said before 'getting dating advice from women'...anyway, it's cool, I get what you saying now...

My bad then but that's what I was saying all along. Stepping outside of the box for a second and seeing stuff differently instead of from a man's pov all the time and picking up things along the way is not the same as being a build a bear for a broad watching too many movies, and that's what it sounded like some of you were saying that I was saying. The two aren't mutual.
 

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My ex boyfriend gave me herpes years ago so as revenge I decided to go forth and notify everyone who had gone to his high school on facebook about his disease. every.single.person I left the page up with all of the information. His son is now a 9th grader at that same school and people figured out that he was the son of mr herpes giver and have been tormenting about it. I did not know this until tonight because I hadn't signed on to that facebook page for over a year. I moved on and never bothered to check it. I logged on tonight out of curiosity and I had at least 40 messages from different family members telling me to call them, asking me who I was, asking why I wasn't responding to their messages. The messages started in late september of 2013. His baby momma said that kids were posting print outs of the front page of the facebook on his locker and asking him if he had herpes like his dad. I thought about deleting the page but decided not to. It is something that I have to live with forever and he needs to see his child going through this so that he will think again before passing on his gift. Judge away.

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